She looks good.but she thinks about renting her own apartament having car I told her that I work in a supermarket. I don’t feel I can pretend to be her bf
I need to talk with her more to ask her on a date. And the date will be after few months so I must be in contact with her? But I don’t know what to talk with her? I will ask what cars she likes😂
@Pikasaur. A little help here. What should speedy talk about with this girl?
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Oh, uhm… You could ask her general things, since you’ve known her form before, like how she’s been, what she does for a living, and if she tells you about interests, ask interested questions.
Example “I sell toys for a living” “Oh really? What kind of toys? Do you enjoy it?”
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Me neither but I do it anyways. It gets a lot easier at my age (57) because sex isn’t my goal. Unless I get lucky. But talking for the sake of talking seems to be where I’m at now. I credit the women at work for making it easy to hold a conversation, who are really nice and polite and not adverse to being friendly and even on my bad days, some of them will greet me or be polite.
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@77nick77. What the heck are you trying to say? Never mind
Have you seen that American movie Forrest Gump? Even that silly willy got hitched.
Situational conversation is hard despite finding a middle ground. Plus, no two people are a like. So you go into all circumstances blind with your own biases. But a good salesman knows how to cash in on any deal. Learning to sell yourself is hard when you’re younger because you’re still developing a self. So you blindly sell yourself when you’re younger. Common ground is key. Good luck.
I can talk to women. I just can’t get them into bed.
I think @Pikasaur gave some great advice on what to talk about.
Also, what are YOUR interests? Using them in a conversation can help because then you know what you’re talking about, so it might be easier to initiate conversation. When I talk to people I don’t know- which makes me nervous but I think I handle well- I ask what they do for a living and try to draw them into a conversation about that. I ask them if they have family nearby. If they do, most people are happy to talk about their family. Ask about pets. What they like to do for fun. I always ask about pets because I know a lot about animals, and dog training is a hobby of mine. When they start talking on a particular topic, pay attention so you can ask periodic questions in order to keep the conversation flowing and let them know that you are listening. If they mention something that you have in common, mention it. Smile a lot. Laugh where appropriate.
Sample conversation- You: “Do you have any pets?” Her: “Yeah, I have two dogs. They are so sweet and wonderful! One is a golden retriever and the other is a pittie mix. I got them both from rescues. Here, I’ll show you a picture.” You: “Wow. They are very nice looking dogs. I have a dog, too, and he’s great. He’s my movie buddy; he just sits on the sofa and watches all my favorite shows with me. He’s a wonderful companion. I got him from a rescue too. Here’s his picture. So besides caring for your dogs, what do you do for fun?” Something like this is great because you gave her something to talk about, listened, added a bit about yourself, then brought the conversation back to her.
Sorry that was so long!
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