My mother died in 1990. Sometimes I’ll be doing something and I’ll have a thought “I can’t believe my mother is dead.” Then I’ll be in shock for a minute. It’s just crazy. Mommy died so long ago.
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sorry about your mother @Loke =(
i don’t know what i would do if my mum and dad were not here anymore…
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Oh thank you 
. Parents are definitely important. I’m glad you still have yours. My dad is really good to me.
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I am so sorry you lost your mom. I have become very close to my mom in recent years. I am not ready to lose her. I can’t even imagine your pain
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i’m glad to hear your dad is nice to you =)
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death doesnt feel real sometimes. when i remember that they are gone and i wont see them again in my lifetime its kind of a shock and leaves a feeling of emptiness
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Aw thank you . I hope you continued blessings with your mother. I’m ok though.
It’s not so painful anymore than it is like I’ll just be in shock for a minute. My mother died with a smile on her face. She’s ok 
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Wow. With a smile? That’s amazing
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Yeah. I get it. My uncle died September 23rd of pneumonia. It’s kinda weird to think of him gone. He was my aunt’s husband but he’s been around my whole life.
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Yeah. With a smile. I wasn’t there. I was home at my dad’s house.
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that’s really nice =O
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I’m sorry about your mom, @Loke. (hugs)
My husband’s dad died 11 and a half years ago, and it’s still really hard for Hubby. His dad was there, everything was great, and then he’s suddenly gone. It was a random freak accident… he fell off the roof.
But what I’m trying to say is, I don’t think people ever really get over losing a loved one. But it can get easier to accept it, the more time that passes.
I hope you’re doing OK. Hang in there. 
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My mother died in 2013. It feels like it was yesterday. It still hurts so bad. I miss her everyday. If I could have just one thing it would be to have my Mother back. When she died I wasn’t able to get a hold of her on the phone, which had happened many times due to problems with her phone line. But every time I braced myself that it could be the time that something was wrong with her. Nothing could have prepared me for finding her the way I did. I was awful and the image is burned into my memory forever. I try to focus on the good times and that makes me miss her even more.
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Sorry to hear that @Loke
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Wow so sorry about your father in law. Sending you and your husband peaceful vibes
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Thanks . I know that most folks on the forum know already about my mom. I’m not in a lot of pain now over it just sometimes it still shocks my brain. My mom was a nice very friendly lady.
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I know it’s very hard. Hang in there.
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Thank you. You hang in there, too.
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Keep hanging on my Lady!
Ive been caught up in my own diatribe lately - to respond to posts. But ill send you one of my personal Angels lol. x
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My mom died 11 years ago this month, so I can really relate
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