there were some nasty incidents that certain important people in my life kept on repeating and repeating and repeating and I couldn’t handle it emotionally. I became enraged at the person who was doing this. I am now getting ready to forgive. oh what a burden off of me!!! it’s hopefully just another release from hell!! forgiveness is truly divine. 
hugs, judy
I’m in the process of forgiving my mom. I hated her for so long and she was gone for a long time, but now she is back and it seems she has truly changed. I’m trying to forgive but it’s hard. I’m not sure that God would even count it as forgiveness because I spent so much time talking smack about her online anonymously beforehand.
i can’t forgive him. especially since i don’t trust he is sorry. how do you forgive someone who is not sorry and doesn’t feel he did anything wrong and doesn’t care anyway?
I try to keep perspective. I had such a great sister, and she has behaved differently for the last ten plus years. She thinks she’s in the right! Well, from my pont of view, she’s in the wrong. But I don’t want to lose her!
Jayster
that is different. i am talking about sexual abuse. but anyway i don’t know how to make up with anyone. i try i am not strong minded enough with thought broadcasting. my thought are automatic mostly
i used to be a “great sister” or was told so. i was. very nice and very well behaved. since my mind changed even if my actions stay the same or improve. idk my thoughts. ihave to break thought them
**Hi @ifeelblessed!
That forgiveness helps you so much. Anger has a purpose, but hanging on to it when its lost its purpose will drain you.
being able to forgive means you have moved on and have freed up space for good things to come! **
Payment.
Then forgiveness.
Can’t have one without the other.
Gotta agree with you on that. I lack this empathy I see in most people. Someone ■■■■■ with me, I want them dead.
But if they repent they can suck up to me then get absolved of psychotic rage.
Fred Frese said he felt psychotic rage and then left the room and that is the right thing to do in that situation. Good thing I’m alone in the dark listening to slipknot.
Don’t know about that.
But accountability in all areas will make for a better world for us all.
You do it then you get it back, equal and opposite.
Yeah. I agree. Forgiveness is hard. I too find it hard to forgive people who are not sorry and don’t feel they have done something wrong. Sometimes they even feel they have done the right thing. I am not Jesus after all.
Best wishes that forgiving works for you