Wish you the best and hope you get out of feeling this way. You have a lot to live for. Your family said that they love you and I believe there is still much you can do with your life. Even if it is just how you brighten the lives of those around you.
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If youâre reading this, there is at least a small part in you that doesnât want to die. Listen to it, and please read on.
Suicide is final â once itâs done, thereâs no changing your mind. Since you have even the slightest of doubts, you owe it to yourself to stay alive.
You can always kill yourself later, why not wait? Even if you wait just one day, you may find a reason not to kill yourself in the meantime.
If youâre feeling suicidal, youâre probably in more pain than you know how to handle. There are ways to reduce the pain, and ways to learn to deal with pain. You can learn both - either way things will get better.
Just because youâre feeling suicidal doesnât mean you have to act on that feeling.
Consider this â if youâre trying to escape from the pain you are in and seek relief, suicide is not the answer. You cannot feel relief, or anything else for that matter, if you are dead. You must stay alive in order to feel the relief you seek.
Often when feeling suicidal you feel alone. You are not alone â you found us didnât you? Turn to your family or friends or a priest or a rabbi â anyone that will listen. If you donât know whom to turn to try the phone lines the link again is http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html
By terminating your life right now, you terminate your future. Consider this â we create our own future. You have the power to create whatever future you wish for yourself. But you need to be alive in order to have that future.
If youâre sensitive enough to be in so much pain that you no longer want to live, youâre probably sensitive enough to care about, and want to help others. Maybe you donât feel like helping anyone else right now, but why not help yourself? And perhaps by not killing yourself and overcoming your difficulties you can later help someone else who is in a similar situation.
Finally, donât do it because Iâm personally asking you not to. Whatever youâre feeling, whatever youâre going through, things can get better â I know because Iâve been there. Maybe I havenât experienced exactly what you have, but not only have I thought of suicide, I tried it â thankfully I was unsuccessful and I can speak from personal experience when I tell you things can get better.
A lot of pain left from the act. It will affect all who youâve contacted even this post has affected some of us. 15 feb 2011 a friend took her own life and Iâm still struggling with it. Please there are people that care about you and Iâm SZ myself I know how hard that is to believe somedays. Meds and therapy helped me a great deal with my illness but itâs taken time. Hang in there it does get better.
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Just remember all of the people who love you and who would miss you if you were gone!
Try doing stuff that makes you happy, like watching movies, listening to music, or eating tasty treats.
Life is worth it!
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dont do it, the feeling will pass
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How are you feeling now @far_cry0?
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Yes. You should talk to mental health professionals. You need somebody who is trained in dealing with suicidal impulses. Try not to obsess. You can get out of this funk that youâre in. It just takes patience.
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All suicidal ideation and behavior should be taken seriously, and those who have suicidal thoughts or know someone who is experiencing suicidal ideation should contact a crisis line as soon as possible.
call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 or go to your local emergency room immediately. I found online might come in handy for you.
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I am with you @far_cry0, please donât think much!!!
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Wishing you peaceful thoughts, @far_cry0
Hang in there, is there a hotline in India you can call?
Are you on an anti depressant? Can you ask about one when you go to the dr.?
Breathe, we care!
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