How to deal with indecision and confusion

[EDM_Stan]

I don’t know when this problem entered my life but it has certainly increased after schizophrenia. When I have to make big decisions in life I always become fickle minded.

When I start doing something and when things become difficult I change my stream.

I always think the grass is greener on the other side.

For example when I was doing engineering i thought medicine is a cool stream and when quit engineering and joined economics stream i kept thinking that engineering is cool.

The same thinking pattern is occurring while I am trying to do work as well.

I can’t decide between becoming a film maker and joining in a firm in the marketing department that’s deals with aluminium. One day i think film making is cool and the next day i think aluminium is a safer option…

How to get out of this loop and start being consistent and productive.

Need help… please advice.

[freefee]

I know exactly what you mean. I used to have to call a friend or friends every time I had to make a big decision. I think people thought i was really imature for asking them. I could never stick to a set routine at work either for a long time. I think the truth is your going to have opostion in life, and nobody can press through it for you. You just have to stay steady, cool, and calm through it. I say this with the obvious truth to me that i could not of ever done it without God’s help. Indecision can creep in on me with even little things like choosing an outfit for the day. If you cut it off with little things like that I think it helps with big decisions.