i havent actually had sex yet but i have a gf and we are are trying,
i got some viagra bc i was having trouble and i’m getting checked for sti but i know i’ve not got any, we are lucky over here bc idk if you have sexual health clinics but we get free condoms and stuff like that
If it was up to me my boyfriend and I would have sex every day. He usually can’t manage that though, and so we end up having it every other day or every 2 days. I have issues to where if I don’t satisfy myself in some way every day my psychosis acts up. It doesnt really anymore now that I’m stable but it does give me high amounts of anxiety when I dont because I’m so used to it acting up.
Oh I get panicky cause of sexual abuse I suffered. I just also happen to be asexual. Sex gives me lots of anxiety/paranoia cause ive never had it willingly.
I used to place high importance on sex and approached it like an addict. But after being in a relationship with a great partner for 4 years I’ve found a great partner is much more important than sex. Now it’s just a special bonus .
I don’t have it too often but I’m also not doing that well mentally so my interest in it is not so much these days.
I’ve had two gfs since being dz. I had a high sex drive and once a day was the norm. Nothing romantic just the act. It’s been ten years. I get laid once or twice a year.