How many people do you think, in their lives, have experienced having literally no good energy to give/help?
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I’m not sure cds, sometimes people just dont want to know if i am overly negative, i get it, it can sicken people & bring them down but sometimes a supportive ear is enough to let it out & get it off my chest,
My Sister really helped today when i called her up, (luckily she had just finished mowing her grass so i guess i should mention i am grateful for my Sisters help today, she gave me a bit of hope is all i can say.
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Everyone has good in them. The idea that people are totally lacking in positive energy or goodness isn’t reality. We simplify because putting people in a box you can deal with them easily.
On the surface i seem to some to have no good energy ..especially when im around people i dont trust or dealing with MH but low key i also have a lot of good energy. Its that the combination of MH and the way other people react/treat me..there isnt a lot of space for my positivity to grow.
It took a long time for me to see this..but i too have good energy even when appearing to have none..
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Nice. Glad you have a good support person.
Thanks. I think a big part of my goodness is how much I meditate. It helps me be kinder.
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Often I don’t think any human being has good energy and I think we are all in hell. I won’t go into detail as some of it stems from religion. Just a battle of mine perhaps delusional at times in the past.
It saddens me though. Cos I look at my children and think what did they do to deserve hell.
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Well there’s your proof right there. At least you and your kids have good energy.
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Look after yourself first then try helping others.
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Thank you.
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That reminds me of a quote I recently heard
“You cannot see love in another, without first seeing love in yourself.”
-Ram Dass
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You can really damage your own well being trying to help people. Unfortunately.
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I have some good energy it is rebellious. It is selfish. It is thankful. It is fearful. It is cautious. It is trustful. It is unbelievable.
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Overwhelming negativity can be exhausting. Even on a support forum it can start to wear down people, especially when it is the same thing over and over again.
There is such a thing as toxic positivity, but I dont care what anybody says, too much negativity is generally way worse than even completely oblivious to reality positivity.
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I’ll be 70 in 9 months. Can’t do as much.
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