How many people are in your life? Immediate circle with regular contact

That’s good :slight_smile: I am glad you have people around you!

I can’t text very well. Sometimes I think it’s better to call than text

Hope something comes along :slight_smile:

Nice! We have a large family too, but it has split off into factions now since Covid-19. I tried to get involved to sort it out, but now I have no contact with my aunt who’s also my godmother - as she was the main instigator of the split in relations. It didn’t work :confused:

Her husband shouted at my mother unprovoked in front of my 87 yo nan, and told her to ■■■■ off - also she was not welcome there

I feel sorry for this all happening, but that’s it now.

When my nan passes, we’ll probably not speak again

My fathers family disowned me. I understand I have 11 uncles and aunts on that side, but they want nothing to do with me and my mother,

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Ugh. I’m sorry. That’s not to say there isn’t drama in the family. But I don’t care about drama. I don’t believe in cutting people off. I talk to all my family regardless of who is fighting with who.

I have never got involved before. But this felt serious enough to at least try and intervene to see if there was a chance of salvaging it. Blew up in my face, so I regret it now.

Should have kept out of it, you’re definitely doing the right thing to not care about it!

It was her husband who crossed the line.

My mother told him ■■■■ you in response, but she felt very intimidated and threatened by it - and was very upset after

Yah, try not to get involved. You don’t need to get dragged down into drama for the sake of your own health. Drama is damaging.

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6 people. 5151515151515

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