im single 7 years. how long are you single?
The longest I was single was about 4 years.
its hard i find for a woman to accept my label, my confidence is a issue too
Maybe praying for someone to come your way? I know that sounds sort of dumb, yet I was waiting a long time myself. Also my GF said she was praying for her soul mate to God and then we met and began dating. I think I was single for about 3-4 years also suprisedJ. I think that if you can be confident even with problems you can find a great person to spend time with.
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How do you pray for someone/a partner to come to your life?you mean pray every night to God every night for a GF?
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thanks NA, im 32 i have a 7 year old son, im young so i hope to find the one,in time…i dont want to be alone in life, so im gonna renew myself and put myself out there
I’ve had a really hard time in keeping confidence, all I can do is admit I’m not the best man in the world…yet maybe I can keep up with some of those guys-right? And ladies too, hard to keep up with my gf she’s always keeping me busy with things to do. Which reminds me I should be getting some work done once my coffee is up. I think that you should go out with others, pedro27. Go have some fun!
all day and night. yep
I think I will make a mental pray every night that will get a partner/soul mate
29 years lol I beat the record 
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I’ve been single for almost 2 years now. Last relationship was about 4 months. My past two relationships were about 3 months, but those were about 7 years ago.
The longest I’ve ever been single was 7 years, but I’ve been with my current partner for a year and a half, which is the longest I’ve ever been NOT single.
my sex drive was 0 many times
sure i tryed to kill myself 4 times in 2000
Last girl I guess courted would be the word took her life in 2011. Very confused on my feelings for the opposite sex since. So not really thinking about dating in the near future. Seriously been thinking of joining the foreign legion or becoming a buddhist monk… Girls have girl germs anyway.
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This is just me….
My own little life and times
But as far as people not liking me for My Sz… I was sort of tuned into the fact that I was using that as my go to excuse.
I was sure if someone didn’t like me… it was due to my Sz…
Well, I see now that some people don’t like me because they just don’t like me.
One girl broke up with me because she is a drinking/ partying girl and my life was too boring for her. One girl fancied my brother more… but I would tell myself it was all because of my Sz.
That sort of thinking got me hooked up to a toxic girl that I was too afraid to let go of because I was sure no one else would accept me… head circus and all. But there came a point in life where I was so sick and tired of waking up sick and tired that it just hit me that my drug days were over… her’s were not.
I was so afraid to let go… no matter how many times she derailed my attempt to get the drugs out. It was a hard thing to untangle from… quit the drugs AND loose the girl. Or don’t quit the drugs, keep the toxic girl and keep getting sicker.
She really laid it on the line… she was ticked at me for not being her drug buddy anymore. That was the number 1 reason… Sz had nothing to do with it.
It’s not the Sz. Sometimes things don’t work out because it’s just on time…
It’s not just finding the right person… it’s finding the right person at the right time.
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I’ve been single since August of 2008 on the 29th at 8:45 p.m.
It’s been 6 years now. I don’t know where I’m going with my love life. I am focused on school, but I still get caught up in the flurry of hope.
Last week I had a bit of a spell where I calculated that there was a marriage at our office in 2013 and one in 2014, so the 2015 marriage could be mine. I daydreamed about it and put the boy next door in the grooms place (which might not be the best, because I don’t understand his spirituality). It was largely due to the fact that I had checked out this Brides magazine from the library.
Being single is good for my schooling, I think. It has me free to do whatever I want whenever I want. I will probably remain single until I graduate. I should probably leave my daydreams to the VW Tiguan.
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Longest time: Until I was 15
I have been single about 24 years.
Tolteca
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