How do you deal with people hating on you?

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People in your life that might be jealous and generally not liked you.What do you do?

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Being silent and a nod is the best respose.
I don’t go for a talk.

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I think I just quit contact with them. I’m a little shy and nervous and don’t like engaging in a conflict
But I don’t know if it is possible to avoid the People you’re talking about.

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There is no straightforward way of dealing with such people in life.

In school days I tried befriending them. Offering them help. Most times this served to make them even more jealous and angry towards me. My immature ass couldn’t figure out why they treated me this way. Even when I wanted to be their friend.

Obviously I figured it out later. And with experience with other similar people I have reached conclusion that these kind of people don’t deserve your attention or friendly gesture.

It is better to avoid them and not start any talk with them when you happen to meet them. If they happen to simply do it as formality.

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I did the same Thing back in school, I thought I had to befriend People like them at Any Cost, so that they might start like me.

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I am too apt to get into feuds with people who don’t like me. I can handle them not liking me, what I can’t handle is their invasion of my privacy. When I go into Walmart and I hear a snide remark I accept it. They have the right to do that. But the girl two blocks away at the library, or someone in a town thirty miles away that we go to once a year, or someone across town, these people do not have the right to even know I exist, much less to pass judgement on me. People come at me saying, "You just do something to me that I don’t understand, and I am thinking, “Who the ■■■■ are you?” There have been only fifty thousand lies told about my situation. If what they are doing to me isn’t wrong, why can’t they admit what they are doing in an appropriate legal forum?

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Some people are no good and best to avoid.

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When people hate me I try to be kind anyway and, if possible, distance myself from them

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I enjoy confrontations,

So I’d say something.

Not if it’s some person I don’t care about.

But family members, yes.

I got tons of experience with that when my son was born.

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I don’t think people hating you is a big deal. It’s okay to me because I really don’t care. Sz delusions make it seem like everyone hated me so I really just try to focus on what I like or the positive things in my life.

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If someone is constant negative influence in your life cut them out of your life.

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I take toxic people out of my life. Why should I keep relationships that are damaging to me?

I haven’t talked to my abusive maternal grandfather (my mom’s dad) since 2016. I realized how abusive he is, how racist he is, how homophobic & biphobic he is, how misogynistic he is… So, I stopped talking to him.

I haven’t talked to my abusive & manipulative sister since May, of this year. She was SO manipulative. She stressed me out so much, that I started having lots of seizures… I’m doing much better since I stopped talking to her.

:blossom:

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I don’t do well at all with people (the whole world) hating on me. I lived like that for many years. It was hell.

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Red Skelton said to find some humor in the situation. If you look hard enough you’ll find something humorous about it.

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