Got upset with my step son for hanging up on me and being disrespectful. Got upset with my mother in law for never hanging out with my daughter when she hangs out with all her other grandkids. Got upset with my property manager for always making me do his job and then trying to tell me 24 hours before he has someone to come over to look at the house. We are still in contract and haven’t moved yet. I asked him to wait until we move to show the house. He said okay but I can tell he was upset. God ive been on a roll with problems with people.
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Are you just letting these people know that they are crossing your boundaries? Because to me that’s a good thing. You should tell people when they are hurting you.
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Their expectations of ypu maybe? Or jackasses
have patience sister… best wishes.
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I have left my anger with the property manager build up for a year and finally told him I’m not okay with something. And then for my mother in law, that’s build up for over 2 years and I honestly exploded and called her a bitch which I regret. But I dont regret anything else I said to her because I have felt those feelings forever and finally just said something. As far as my son, I don’t feel bad for that at all. He treats me with such disrespect when he doesn’t get his a. I know he has had it really rough when he lived with his mom so ive been letting him get away with too much for to long. I can’t live this way anymore. Not telling people how I feel goes against my nature. I thought it was the right thing to do to keep the peace but I ended up in such resentment
It’s not good for me.
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I’m trying. But I’m horrible at patience 
thanks for the best wishes
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Lol. You made me smile 
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Good lol.i was wprried i sa i said something wrong
Not at all. I’m busy so tired girl. Like I can’t deal with ■■■■■■■■ all of the sudden. My marriage almost ended over this thing with my mother in law. It’s so funny because two days ago I got good news all day. I told my step kids, “I’m on a roll! I bet tomorrow bad things happen.” Sure enough they did lol
What’s going that you’re so angry at everyone all of a sudden? I get that things have been building up, but this sounds a bit extreme. Are your meds working? Are you okay?
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Hey. My meds haven’t been working to good lately. Starting my trial next week so will hopefully be doing better. I’ve been taking them daily but I still have been hearing voices.
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When I get angry with everyone around me.
It’s time for a med adjustment.
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Thank you for the advice! I am starting a new med one week from now so I’m hoping this will help me.
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You are doing everything right.
Thanks. I’m trying. I’m in tears right now because I feel like I’m holding myself back by being so bottled up. I know it’s not good for my mental health. So I’m finally just fed up. I don’t know where my choices of expressing myself are going to get me, but overall I feel like I made the right choices for me.
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My friend said she was in a bad relationship and that she finally ended it by blowing up on her ex.
Try something relaxing to clear your mind. Watch funny videos on YouTube or something
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It could be that it’s not the fact that you’re pushing back when pushed or letting out your emotions, but the way you do it.
Try to have a moment to sit down and think about how you’ve been wording yourself when talking to these people, and how your body language has been. Has any of it seemed hostile or over-the-top?
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Yeah I hope it doesn’t turn out this way with my husband. I feel like financially he supports me but emotionally he doesnt. I got diagnosed 2 years ago and he still doesn’t know anything about my illness except I need to take meds. I’ve been expressing my feelings with him for a year but nothing has changed yet. I’m really praying it does.
Thanks. Going to do my replies then watch Elizabeth Blue. Was suppose to yesterday but never got the chance