i have a fear of losing job. financial support is also not much. have a family to support. how do i survive if i lose the job and dont get it back due to sz. i always have sadness and feel like not having the right attitude to work. is informing the family and approaching a home an option?
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Ok, @Melomaniac, I don’t adviceing you. But telling about myself. When I was studying in college than I was suffered. I was failed in many subjects. Then I / my family decided to withdrawal. I was properly treated for one year. Than again I returned to college and passed my all compartment subjects and find a degree. ( one thing is important to tell you that I was didn’t much aware of this disease, so I went off my all meds during this all, and again suffered) . So it is better to return with an option to go again, for you.
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I think u can countinue ur job…try harder…as far as i am concerned i am jobless due to sz…my family helps me with financial mattee…i am too poor…
If your family do not know about your condition , it might be worth talking to them about your condition and explaining your difficulties … are you the only one earning ?
yes i am the one earning. i have spoken in length about my condition. but still due to ignorance and not much support for me they believe its self inflicted. i cant change their beliefs unless there is someone they trust can tell about me.
@far_cry0, what did your mean to say - Try harder. Don’t you know your self.
hi @anon68148378 , yes i too went through similar now sticking on to meds and hoping it will making me better one day.
Have you been diangnosed by a consultant ? Might be worth talking to the consultant and asking them if they can come home and talk to the family. They might listen to the doctor.
I am guessing about one more thing @Melomaniac, that you are of Indian origin and working abroad. So may be your paranoia is real. And that is causing your problem. So think it with cool mind.
its easier said than done bro.
i am indian and work in india but for abroad. like i worked in call center and tech support. thinking is cool mind is what i am trying to achieve. i am introspecting everyday. only thing that i realize is i dont have support from my own family coz they just criticize me from my childhood which caused many major problems in my life. now there is only my wife and mom for moral and any support. friends cant depend on them as much as my family.
No, you are confusing me. In your another thread you wrote - since it is in India. What does it mean.
i have been diagnosed sz by couple of psy before. now bipolar disorder not sure if thats right or truth. but i believe i have sz. i take my wife to doc everytime which is sufficient i believe.
sorry if that is confusing but i worked only in india
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That’s good but perhaps the people who don’t understand need to listen to the doctor.
Yes bro ur curcumstances look difficult …take ur both wife and mom to either psychologist or pdoc…love frim nepal…hope they will realize soon…take care …
they wont even come @anon80629714 they are located different places
thanks very much bro
That’s not great… was more for the dr coming home but if too far it won’t work
moreover they wont even talk to me. it affects my job and normal life at home. overcoming that one thing will be a greatest achievement.