High sex drive and low sex drive

I have very high sex drive since I am 12.Not until recently that my sex drive dropped.Having high sex drive is frustrating,it can affect your work or life because a lot of energy is wasted on masturbating.I am lucky I took a med change and now I have lower sex drive,maybe it might be because I am older now that my sex drivr lowers

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My counselor gave me good advice because I completely lost my sex drive. She said it is better because I would not have been able to handle it.

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Hey gtx how about ur girlfriend … are u still on date…with that thai girl…

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I have low sex drive, even lower with meds.

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When I was young, I had a very, very high sex drive and my husband had a monster high sex drive. I couldn’t keep up with him. Ever since I was put on psych meds, I have had a lower sex drive. And ever since I’ve been put on Risperdal Consta shots, I’ve had zero sex drive to the point that I have deliberately chosen celibacy as a lifestyle. And I am very happy this way.

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hypersexuality is a common symptom of mood disorder, like REALLY common. entire papers have been written on it. after taking ssris ive found my sex drive is out of control. my fantasies grow more and more transgressive and perverted as i get into worse and worse porn. at first i thought i was just kinky, but really sometimes i cant help flirting with girls and im normally an extremely nervy and conservative person. my sex drive is too much in that it dictates how i relate to females. sometimes i cant even make eye contact with them and come off as creepy or distant, at least this is what i think.

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I’ve always had a very low sex drive. It gets slightly higher in the beginning of my period, but it’s low in general.

I guess I just never saw it as a need, more like a want. BUT, if I go more than two weeks without masturbating, I start to dream that I’m doing it, so I guess there’s a primal urge hidden deep down in me somewhere.

I do believe it can be trained and controlled over time, but I also understand that people have different needs and that it’s not as easy as it seems. I’m kind of a hypocrite, because it disgusts me when people with high sex drives can’t won’t control their urges (especially if they choose to act on them), but I’m totally understanding about people with low sex drives not being able to make theirs higher. I know I should work on this hypocrisy, and I am.
After all, when I know it’s really hard to make your sex drive higher, why should it be any different when people with high drives can’t lower theirs? And why am I only now realising all this?

I wish I had higher sex drive and normal erections…

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