You remember the most ? And why ?
I recollect the people who hurt than who helped me. I dont know why is this way in me.
Is it same for you ?
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I dont really follow what you mean, are you asking if i remember people who hurt and then be nice to me at the same time?
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You mean those two face people.
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They have hurt you and long gone but i still remember them in situation of failure.
Where i always fail, and i keep remembering them what they said to me and its true.
Example: My friend said if i am not being useful someone else will make use of you.
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Maybe I have the IQ of a gnat but I try and focus on the people in my life who lift me up. Like my family and friends.
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Yes they just twist and turn as per their convenience of life, and dont stick on to what they actually say. They say something and do something else
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It’s a dog eats world out here.
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Unfortunately. Hypocritical people do exist, it’s true. Ive got a few in my immediate social circle, but the fact is. We have to take the good with the bad and give benefit of the doubt. As in, be open to positive thoughts and measured doubts instead of letting it get us down with frustration or anger
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I know those people meet them at my School.
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Aww @Montezuma i want to be the same, its so difficult i take them for granted like my parents.
And brother they always reach out to me and i think its there duty thats why they reach out to me. I am one big stupid ass. Getting humped royally by people who i dont know and care for them more than my own blood.
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Yes @MisterApple , need to take in only the good and forget the rest, but its ao hard to forget the bad part, i remember i made a thread about humiliation and the meds power to make me forget this. I felt i should not forget them as ot drives me to do more. Anger at being looked down in social circumstances make me do stuff.
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I feel you my man, i really do. Just yesterday i went through something similar. A sibling looked down on me, and i corrected them. And then afterwards they realised they were being an arse to me.
It is hard bro, it’s really hard. But i believe in you. You will conquer it. And dont forget, the new class of medication can help you. You maybe an imrpoved man and morr like your old and younger self!
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They do it intentionally, i place my dreams and goals on what i want to become and the things i would like to do up front. But they dont expose them self. They wear a Armour and hide things from me, like as though i would stab them with my sword. I dont say i do not but some times when i am excited i say stupid things that will hurt them.
I think to place your dreams and goals front of your loved one is the most courageous things to do than letting the friends know, who may back stab you later on.
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Thanks @MisterApple
This never happens to me i just go silent.
I tried multiple times at home to stop a argument and my voice is not even considered, once my dad informed me I belong in a hospital.
I know he loves me but with anger he does not know what to say but he make sure he hirts others by words.
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I will just say I live very solitary life due to the fear of being hurt, but I was wrong you got to keep moving forward despite the chance of getting hurt by the people around you.
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Thanks, is this that motivates you to do things.
You being hurt and saying to self i am better than this ?
I was also thinking isn’t this have to do with humiliation? But I am most in it and the meds make me forget the stuff happened to me.
The most needed memories to move on i forget like whats the purpose i am doing this.
Also these days i feel like i am a new person every day after waking up from sleep and no clue what happened yesterday.
My ex-brother-in-law used to say, “It’s a dog eat dog world and I’m a Rottweiler”
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All people are bad except for a few.
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I would say 99.9% of people are bad.
The remaining 0.01% always leaves me because I’m a bad person too.
All of my friends left me because I was dependent and clingy. I don’t want anyone to be near me again because I fear that I will damage them psychologically. I’m a monster.
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Other people don’t change me or my feelings.
Yeah there’s some bad people out there but I seek people who work with me.
It’s hard for mental illness because we isolate and we obsess about everything but it’s still good to try and connect.
You learn good skills getting a friend you can use to get another.
You don’t then it’s back to square one and try again.
It really is worthwhile but appreciate how hard it is for our community.