Because, when I was young, I would try to flirt away my problems. It really got bad after awhile. Wasting my Dad’s money, too.
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I want to be everyone’s mistress,
Its a problem in my life.
Flirting is basically the only way I know how to interact with men,
Also a problem.
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My Pdoc is a dude…and I don’t think you’d wanna see me in a cocktail dress. Also, the pumps would kill my feet! 
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I felt that way about my old gp for a while. I was in the process of being diagnosed with a few things, and he was effectively my pdoc as well, so I had appointments a few times a month for many years. But then he told me I should just pray and maybe that would help and I was all nope, ■■■■ that I’m done.
I don’t necessarily flirt, but I have a huge problem with playing dumb around men because so many of them will treat you way better if they think they’re smarter than you because god forbid a woman be smarter than a man.
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My psychiatrist is female and younger than me but also married. It would be unwise to pursue her since she is now pregnant.
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No i did not want to sleep with a pdoc. But that did not stop me from wearing my most cleaveage blouse with i went to see him.
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if he’s a professional he won’t even notice, or if he has a low libido.
i am easily visually turned on with a high libido
i get turned on seeing women in sweatpants, even sweatpants can’t hide a nice butt
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My psychologist was gay after a couple of months my wife and me noticed which wasn’t a problem for us lol. Just would of been super gay of me if I wanted to be his partner or side guy lol… So no lol
my pdoc has a pretty lady ahe works with, but i suspect they keep it professional. both of them are probs married.
he also works with his wife in the same office so she has her eye on him
Some women wear tight spandex to show their curvy legs and butt. It’s quite distracting but whatever.
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I don’t flirt but I have a male alter where apparently that’s all he does. I doubt he’s ever flirted with a doc though.
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If that’s true it’s kind of sad. It’s not like I know all the men in the world and they would admit to liking women that aren’t smart. I find women that are smart in a certain way attractive. I’m kind of into women that like poetry even if poetry isn’t big time my thing. Just something about it. I would say my female friends are at least as smart as me, often moreso. If a woman seemed not very smart I guess I would more feel sorry for her than anything else. If a woman pretended to not be smart to try to attract me I would be flattered I think but I would also feel kind of bad.
Never had a male pdoc. They keep putting me with women, probably because of my well-expressed borderline sex addict nature.
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My pdoc is beautiful inside and out. She has a very lucky husband. Hard to find beauty inside and out.
Well my doctor is a female, super serious & smart. I really respect her and appreciate her advice. I have been with her for over 15 years so I cannot imagine her that way.
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You are very pretty…I would imagine a male pdoc might find himself thinking about you in ways in which doctors shouldn’t think about their patients. They are human beings too at the end of the day.
I had bfs telling me they would’ve banged me at 13 because I was already well-developed, so I wouldn’t be surprised. I feel like a potato, though. I’m nowhere near my old 110lbs prowess.
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its a subtle thing…some ppl just have that effect, male and female
most doctors are able to leep it professional
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I have an unhealthy relationship with seeking affection from men, so I’m sure my bf would be wary of me having a male pdoc as well.
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