I agree it’s depressing
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I think my boyfriend has faked a few orgasms and we only have sex once every four or three months or so.
We are both in medication.
I was celibate for five years and sober after I had cancer.
I was a slu# when I was a binge drinker.
Didn’t enjoy it but something destructive…
Anyway I would rather be celibate than be a sl##.
But I do enjoy sex still despite that I have dried up and have early menapause.
i like sex, i’d like to satisfy a woman with love.
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I think Id prefer a relationship to just 1 night stand sex and that’s part of the reason I turned down sex the other night. Because I didn’t like how she was talking to my friend like “oh I invited him over…so I ■■■■■■ him”. It’s like, sex shouldn’t be that way to me. I mean she can do it if she wants but don’t get me involved in those stuffs. I guess. Then I really like having sex but would like it to mean something a little more. Wow I always thought I was more liberal in this regard but I think I’m more conservative. Also she was saying things to my friend like “if he doesn’t please me enough he’s worthless to me” or something and I was worried what if i don’t please her will I be worthless. And will she gossip to my friend. Well, I guess I don’t feel bad anymore. If I were to ask a girl you wanna ■■■■ she’d probably slap me in the face!! I know men and women are way different but I shouldn’t feel bad I guess it was my decision and i don’t need some 1 night stand ■■■■ to feel good about myself anymore.
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Next month I make 2 years with no sex. Never felt better 
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I’m thinking of it too celibacy. No ms nothing. I’m bored of it all.
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I’ve never had an orgasm with a person
Same here… And I kept trying but didn’t succed.
I need to feel relaxed n I just don’t.
Ive tried to relax my mind and you know… Finish… A few seconds before I feel like finishing I can’t relax anymore and I start over… And the world goes round and round… Some girls like that, more for them I guess lol
Oh i’m so sorry, i meant to say this thread is depressing 
yeas they do actually. But yea sorry to hear that thou.
For me I just feel ugly as ■■■■ all over and so dont feel attractive person n so feel like a beast
If somebody told you you’re a beast… In bed… I think it’s a good thing
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I try to give hubby bj before he can initiate intercourse. I really now pretty much view it as a “wifely duty” to have sex. I need meds so it is what it is. I still have an occasional orgasm but not as often as I used to, and I am not horny as much either. Meds suck
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Bj are more fun then sex, but only a few women know what they’re doing. Met one once
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i wanna know how to give a good bj. wats the trick
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Hahaha! There is a method not a trick. Also, most guys like you to swallow their man yogurt. It’s the same for us gals and when a guy goes down on us. There isn’t just a magical trick. It’s a process.
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Lol there are videos for bj hj etc etc
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euwww i dont like that lol.
Dunno the ingredients of them
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Even if you don’t swallow, some gets in your mouth. Not the best taste but such is life.
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