Excessive fantasizing

y’all ever just sit for hours imagining your ideal life? cuz I’ve been spending the past three days just constantly in my own head. just wanna hear about what y’all fantasize about :kissing_heart::two_hearts:

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I do haha.
I dream about living by the ocean, near the mountains. Having my dream dog. A German Shepherd. Painting and writing, not worrying. Not being alone.

Let’s hear yours!

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Going back to school to study anthropology…

Being myself…the person I grew up as and thought I would always be…

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I think about just going off into the woods in the middle of nowhere with a guy and having a cute lil family, away from troubles and perfectly in love. or getting a nuclear bunker and doing the same thing, depending on how paranoid I am at the time, lol :two_hearts:

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I’m sure you can get there someday :slight_smile:

That sounds lovely.
Going completely off grid and living off the land would be perfect,
I keep thinking about doing it
Maybe one day

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Getting a PhD in physics. I struggle with the basics. It would be nice to learn more how reality operates, but I’m not smart enough.

I would like to teach myself though.

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I think about all my kids successful adults and I living in a community house of all artists, musicians, writers. The place exists and I’ve been there several times. Rent is dirt cheap and the people are all lovely.

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I fantasize that I feel great. Like the way I did before schiz.

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I fantesize all the time. Ive learn to stop when I have something to do or when I’m busy. My fsntesies are mostly about a girl, I haven’t meet her yet but I’m my head she’s awesome and cute.
I usually do this before bed

When I commute Im usually the prime minister of my country and fix all the country problems.

I swear I could get România into g8 if I had a chance lol

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I dream about gettin a camper/RV and cruise the world. Hope I can make it happen when I’m a pensioner.

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I spend all my time alone, so I do spend a lot of time fantasizing of all sorts of things, I can just ly in bed and it goes on and on, Guess it is what keeps us going

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Whenever I fall for a woman I spend too much time fantasizing about being with her. I suppose that’s a pretty normal one.

I stopped dating/pursuing women in 2016, when I realized I was in no mental condition for it, but I’m sure I’ll get back at it eventually. I can’t imagine a woman, especially one in her 30s or 40s, as I would be seeking, wanting to be with a crazy broke-ass ghetto dweller like me, though. :pensive:

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I fantasize about coming about a ton of money, moving into a mansion by myself and throwing huge parties. Basically living the life of the Great Gatsby

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I fantasize about love and romance.

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It’s seems that there is a pattern.

Most of us dream about love. That’s cute.

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I would give up love if my country would get out of a dump hole. A nation destiny is more important then a man’s love

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Nonsense post 151525

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I dream, but when it gets obsessional I then find it tiring and frustrating.

In reality, there is only the ever changing present. Looking too far ahead or dwelling in the past is to me either craving or regret.

I spent awhile dreaming of travelling in a 4x4 truck camper today. After awhile, I thought that is enough. Appreciated the moment and moved on with my day.

It is tricky weighing up aspirations and the negativity that it is not happening already. It is good to have hope and to make them achievable dreams so as not to depress you.

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