While spending time listening to someone, I begin to imitate their body language. When talking with someone, I begin to imitate their patterns of speech. These things are embarrassing. It’s unconscious. You CAN correct it.
I agree with Martin. I used to have this habit of borrowing my friends’ gestures or manner of speaking. Once I became aware of the problem, I took steps to correct it. And I think I succeeded.
I did this with my husband. I mimicked his pattern of speech and words for years. I’m still mimicking his pattern of speech. Long after he abandoned it. I mimicked my last girlfriend’s pattern of behavior. I’m still mimicking it long after we were over.
Oh interesting, I didn’t know that. Right before I got sick, I had a bad case of this(movements) while I was on a flight and the people next to me started making fun of me. I was really embarrassed and confused as to why I was doing it.
Now I only semi do it but like in a casual way if I’m like vibing with someone. So not to the point where it’s a condition.
I notice I will mimic what other people say ‘cause I have nothing else to say and it’s just something that comes out.
I know I used to mimic peoples’ specific accents too, unintended.
I think some times I copy their movements too, I never really knew the term or that’s most likely what I have been dealing with since I was a child.