Don't have the desire for sex

My friend came by for sex, and I said I really wasn’t up to it. He asked if I would get him off, and I said I would. It was nice, but he didn’t get off because I couldn’t get off, and left. He keeps coming back though.

It’s really frustrating. I think my testosterone is low.

Im 37 years old and invega sustenna has almost completely eliminated my sexual function. I know how frustrating it is.

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Thanks @anon84461028

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I get depressed when I masturbate.

But I still do it from time to time. A cup of coffee either prior or after balances my mood.

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Thanks for responding @ATARI @anon57786250

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Geodon and Seroquel have almost done that to me. The Haldol shot didn’t do that, but I would still a thousand times prefer to take Geodon and Seroquel over any form of Haldol.

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Thanks crimby. I’m taking Abilify which can cause hypersexuality, but not in me apparently.

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Do you feel that he’s only using you for sex?

What are your thoughts on this?

Are you ok with it @anon54988740?

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No appetite for sex, I don’t know. Similar to food, we just don’t like eating. Careful what you eat, what type of sex you like. When you are hungry for meat some animal has to die. A sexual vegan.

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I’m fine with the sex and I want to. It’s just my libido is really low.

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Thanks for responding

Yeah I have low Testosterone and I’m having libido issues too.

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If you are drinking alcohol, you should stop as that causes libido problems. Also, if it isn’t against your world view or you immediate health, you can eat more red meat which will up your cholesterol which makes the major sex hormones.

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Thanks @Pat6398. I don’t drink, and I already eat some red meat

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Is there a hormonal supplement you can get from the chemist? Might be worth a try?

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I sent a message to my doctor about getting my testosterone checked again, or if there could be anything else going on. Thanks for responding.

I don’t have any libido anymore either. And haven’t had in a long time. All due to Risperdal Consta and maybe Celexa. I just consider myself celibate and even asexual now.

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I occasionally have the desire for sex. It’s just not something I can do without serious consequences. I also question my ability to do it anyway after what the drugs have done to me. So my sexual thoughts are almost something I no longer desire to have. One thought stopping thing I once did was play a long set of Pink Floyd.

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Thanks @SkinnyMe @Blizzard

I keep doubting I want sex. Then on a typical day like today I drive past a pretty woman in a sexy dress…and it’s on.

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