Does your family treat you like a piece of meat or like a part of the family?

Do you feel like they treat you like you’re icky and unimportant all the time? Or do you feel like they really genuinely care about you?

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It depends on the day. Now that I have a baby they talk to me sometimes, but I think it has less to do with me than with her. They never talk to me unless I try to start a conversation, and even then only half the time do they even respond. I’ve mostly given up on them.

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I don’t feel like they are really concerned about me all the time, I guess because they have a lot going on in their lives.

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My family practically deifies me. It’s a little overwhelming sometimes. Still I am very grateful for their love.

My family treats me pretty well. Nothing I can complain about there.

My family have lost respect for me :frowning: they don’t understand they just say I need to snap out of it or I’m being silly. I don’t hear from them much cause there is a lack of concern for me and I’m sure they roll their eyes at me when I suffer.

My family still expect me to work…but i can’t…!!!

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My family treats me like I’m normal with a few problems. It’s been a year and a half and I’m running out of juice. I really need a plan.

all i have left is my mum and my sister but my mum has got some problems, they dont treat me like i’m nothing, i think they care about me, my mum says she was hoping for a daughter from me lol idk if that will happen though, i doubt it. i’d love a daughter though :slight_smile:

Ive been treated with disrespect by them amoung other things.

Also trashed and rideculed and humiliated and yeah trashed as beyond n worse than scum of the Earth.

I dont ever want to meet the father one and his side of family ever again.
I want to send them xmas card or gift once a year but nothing else.

I skype n text once a month or so with former step mum and mum , a few times year with randma and dont really have any contact with the others.

I truly sincerely do not think they are my real family.

By God, I do not think they are my real family.

There are other people I have spiritually come across who i think are my real family.

The family was raising me maybe as experiement, kidnapping or to ruin me or Golly knows but I do not think they are my real family.
I also think they are jealous of me and have hate for me and have behaved illegally and cruel and unacceptably to me.

I dont want them in my life other than me sending them gift or card once a year for xmas.

I dont hate them or wish them bad.
I just dont want them in my life in any way shape i think.

The former step mum and mum i have love for and former stepmum who raised me too gave me apartment to live in as i could not afford a place in person despite being so rich in other way.

I am not a part of their family.

I never felt that i was and now i know im not.

I even changed my name cause i dont want to carry that mans last name.

I was baptised in my new name.
I just chose the name cause its what came to me and then changed to more common name cause was advised to do so.

I pray and Thank God for my real family amoung other things and i opnely and honestly say i dont want meet others ever again but only send xmas card perhaps.

I think I have an ok relationship with my family. My Mum and one of my sister’s treat me fine. My dad sort of treats me like an experiment and my other sister is either jealous or afraid of me.

Never see any of my family, I think they were happy I left them behind, There was never any love there anyway.

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My father and sister treats me like a vegetable since they are vegan lol

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after dad died couple of years ago we just get on with it and things have been pretty good, miss him like crazy though

before, my dad took care of me and i idolised him bc he was such a cool guy, still cant believe what happened but i am starting to see how hard it is to stay away from drink esp when you are alone, i think he did it bc he lost his job and got unwell, everybody has an excuse though, i guess.

My sister and I have a very good relationship; she and her family are all the family I have left. Of her five kids, though, only the oldest and youngest care to talk to me anymore. Even when I’m at their house the middle three have no interest in saying a word to me; I think they just view me as weird. They’re just kids, so I don’t hold it against them. I am kinda weird, with how overly quiet I am. Perhaps it’s a little creepy to them, which bums me out a bit.

sometimes, I’m treated like a piece of meat…

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they used to but they think I’m better now when I’m not, never okay I feel disassociated and think they invite me out just out of sympathy which I don’t like

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Mine hates me completely and abuses me quite often. I’ve been stolen from and even choked. Just the other day my mom was lying about how i’m causing money problems when i’m not.

One day one suggested killing me to the other one.

They also like to humiliate me about my conditions. They laugh at me and talk about me behind my back.

One was making the usual down syndrome sounds at me one night.

They keep me around to gain things and then throw me away.

One broke my guitar once as well, threw it across the backyard and broke that ■■■■.

The list can go on but i’ll stop.

I tried to get away but i couldn’t. Tried to get away.

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My family has always been there for me. Two of my siblings are sz so it’s acceptable in my family. The in-laws have been the same as before sz. But there kinda clueless about it, like most people are. My wife has seen it up close and personal so we’ve had are moments in the past. All is good now.

My family is divided as far as support. I have nearly nothing to do with my biological father. He lives in mississippi. hardly ever hear from him. been that way my whole life.

I am close to my mom and my brothers and sister. I feel part of the family.