Does he not respect me?

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Im finding him really hard to read. I can tell he really loves me but sometimes I just wonder why he does certain things. Like today he said he’s going to sleep at his parents house cos his sibling had some kind of treatment which meant she couldn’t stay at her home. I asked him if he could drop me a message if he couldn’t talk this evening and I’ll just go sleep. So I’m waiting to talk tomorrow him it’s 11pm. He could just have said he’s not gonna be able to talk in two words on a message ! It really bugs me… Today I feel disrespected

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In all other respects he hasn’t raised his voice at me but I dont feel what I want matters, it has to go by his pace.

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Also what’s the harm in getting engaged before moving in together not even asking for a friggin ring cos I don’t like wearing them

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well you know he loves you.

I would text before you go to bed you love him and good night.

and wake up and talk tomorrow.

but I understand what you are feeling.

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I’m frustrated I don’t know what to do. I dont want to end it ,but also don’t want to be waiting forever it’s been 6 years

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I don’t know. I’d be concerned if he didn’t text me even though I requested.

But also sometimes people get caught up in what they’re doing and forget…

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this is not worth ending it over.

it feels really big right now.

I look back at some of the biggest fights and think not worth it.

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I think this might be our first fight coming up and I don’t even know what I’m about to fight about. I’m just really annoyed. Also I skipped my meds today (accidently )

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Ask him to commit. Or bin him off. No relationship is worth getting stressed over.

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You might be feeling worse because you missed your meds? Just talk it out with him. You are doing so well being in a good relationship. Sometimes i get doubts to but most of the time were good

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He’s probably just busy with his family. Someone’s sick. To be fair couldn’t you have messaged him?

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It’s probably an oversight. Gently remind him that you would like a little more consideration from him.

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