Do you think you're a lot like your mother?. or your father? or neither

I’d say neither for me.
except emotional intelligence conversations
with my dad.
but my mom is usually my rock.
and I like to think I got that from her
for my kids too.

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Neither. I like to think I learned from their mistakes.

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A little bit of both. Plus a lil bit of their polar opposites.

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are you Gen X? a lot of us feel that way.

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Dunno. I was born in 1970.

yeah, you are. Mine was '69.

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Wow you just made it in time for the

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haha, yeah, that song isn’t about the year though. ha.

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Oh lolllll??? Never thought about that???

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I am a lot like both of my parents.

Mother: gentle and peaceful

Dad: can be helpful but do not piss me off

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My dad was an emotionally abusive alcoholic so I pray I’m nothing like him. My mom is a caring emotionally supportive former educator so I hope I have a little bit of her character in me.

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okay, please don’t slam drinkers. your dad is many times not to blame about that. did you ever ask, or know anything?

I am alot like my dad, physically and mentally.
I have my mother’s mood swings, but my dad’s temperament and overall disposition.

Someone once said interacting with one of us made them want to shake us to make us stop being so damn docile.

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I have my frugality from my father and have the eyebrows of my mom.

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Daze, a lot family members of drinkers go through a lot of pain, please don’t belittle people for expressing that pain.

They watch the drinker get drunk day after day, watch their moods change for the worse, watch them stop taking care of themselves.
Some drunks get angry or violent. Spend more money than the family can afford.

I had to watch my uncle drink himself into liver failure while pushing away everyone who tried to help him or adress his problems.
He chose the booze over his wife, over his kids, over his grandkids. It does a lot of damage to a family.

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ha, my daughter didn’t get my eyebrows. it was a big concern to her in high school.

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Life isn’t a rose garden. nobody promised us anything.

Daze- you know nothing about me so I’m deleting you and leaving this unsupportive site. Go to hades!

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