Other people as “uninteresting”, “plain”, “boring”?
I think I can come across as a boring person. I don’t like to share too much about myself, and I struggle to have a conversation going on.
I think I empathize well with “boring” people. Less lies and less need to show off.
I thinks folks are too judgemental period. Judge not lest ye be judged.
Well yeah. But judging is a basic and natural cognitive behaviour. As human beeings we cannot avoid it!
I think people can be quick to judge each other. I know my delusions make me judge everybody as being cruel and mean spirited but that’s my sz.
I wasn’t that judgemental before sz. I also think I find some people boring in a superficial way…it’s just my personal opinion…I don’t think it’s a big deal tho 
People are cruel and judgemental to people with this illness. Fu-ck them. They wouldn’t give a sh-it if I died. Fu-cking animals!
I agree that some people are cruel. I’m not gonna be cruel or hateful tho…as long as I keep my anger in check 
Anger is good. It’s better than taking ■■■■ from people!
Fair comment, but there are different degrees and some people judge very harshly and quickly… it’s something I try to avoid.
In my experience if it gets out of control it can be far more destructive than protective.
I never get angry. I’ve been treated like shi-t. I just absorb everything and suffer in silence.
I think suffering is the key word here. If you suffer from your anger then it’s not good. If you suffer from not getting angry then it’s not good either.
It’s just a beliefs but I feel like there has to be a way to deal with being mistreated without becoming a punching bag or becoming angry and hateful. I’m dealing with this in my own life. Somehow I have to get to a point that I am no longer reactive…at that point if my abusers actually exit and it’s not sz …I will be able to have understanding and compassion for them. Somethings wrong with constantly hurting a person who doesn’t do anything to anybody anymore… Hate and violence only arise in certain situations…a lot of the time behind hatred is fear. If I can find a way to make them not fear me I might solve the issue . If I can see the fear in their behavior I realize it’s protective and that usually brings a little relief from the anger.
Sorry for the long reply…all I’m saying is there has to be a way out of suffering man that doesn’t involve creating more suffering…
Wise words my friend! You have thought about this for a while it seems.
I hope you resolve whatever it is that’s troubling you.
I hope you can find some peace soon.
strong textYes absolutely they can people are too quick to judge me because of my mental state and mental illness and how I look and act I felt I was being judged when going to the er yesterday early morning for breathing issues
They claim that 1/3 of people will like you, 1/3 will be indifferent and 1/3 will dislike you no matter what you. Just be your authentic self and use your social skills for easy going interactions.
whole life i been judged whenever i wasn’t huge and flashy with my creative endeavors so i can definitely vouch.
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