Paranoias been pretty bad with my friends recently but the quality of the friendships has also plummeted. Essentially frenemies. After writing it, it seems pretty obvious. Obviously being around people who are being shitty is gonna make you worse.
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Your gonna have to goto your gut instinct mate - cos we dont know the ins - and outs of your relationship with them.
We, as, Sz mental health patients - are notoriously bad at maintaining relationship’s. Its the paranoia - that usually does it - cos then of Course, we are all pissed off,cos then we are feeling lonely, because we have told them all to sod off.
Its just one of things - your simply gonna have to learn to work out for yourself mate.
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I’ve had friendships that weren’t like this. Or at least friendships where when there was conflict it would resolve but your right there’s a billon details I’m not gonna go into on here and the paranoia is making things so much harder.
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If you got a mate all well and good. But there is no “perfect” relationship your gonna have. Its all about give and take. Trouble is - us lot always over analyse it - because essentially we are insecure in ourselves,
Just be grateful for the good times, with your friend, remember hes, probably got his own issues - cos none of us are perfect,
Try not to stress too much, over silly details. Your doing ok.
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Some people pretend to be your friend only to sex traffick without your consent or knowledge or to steal your inner beauty and good energy or identity or good nature or money and riches while being horrible and fake and disgusting to you in your real body .
They don’t want to love uou or enjoy your company but they want to be uou kinda n feel like uou n steal your golden moments light years n nature n etc etc etc and dominate opress and destroy and hurt so badly .
“The meat “ of the is not worthless even if it’s essence been stolen so they thought but who n all is still is as is in one’s real body .
Illegal meat industry n energy n saw mills etc 
Friends and sex and the city tv shows suck but I did do love Seinfeld and dead wood and ghosts .
n some others .
I don’t have friends in a way as I was set up and betrayed by “everyone “ almost when all I did was love them all they wanted power control opress n steal and were jealous etc
I have one real friend in Sweden 
but we don’t have internet contact as such and i believe I have real dry on a deeper or other level who were loyal to my real body and knew what the other mf did n cared .
I believe I have a real family and friends and people and hope to be with them a better people to and for me because god knows what these ones did (won’t begin to try explain ).
Let’s keep da faith of a better people and that loyal real true beaut friends still exist for us .
I dunno about paranoia, but fake friendships are harmful to anyone, even more so to us because we’re more emotionally vulnerable. On the other hand, preexisting paranoia might prevent you from seeing things clear. Maybe, just maybe, you read too much into a situation and wrongly label a friend as fake. I did it before, while psychotic. Good thing they put up with me until I came back to my senses.
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Yeah, I get paranoia after a friendship is bad for me. The process goes like this: They or the friendship sucks the energy out of me and then I’m liable to the first stages of a potential psychosis - usually because the stress has triggered me. Which manifests as paranoia at first stages for me