I’ve seen a lot of people that struggle to have friends from the opposite gender.
They can get really anxious interacting with them.
What are your thoughts about this?
I never had much problems: when I used to have friends, I had like 50/50 m/f friends. Now my circle of people that I call friends (I’ve become very picky about this) is maybe 3 males and 1 female.
Yes, I do, because of social anxiety.
Depends on the person really
@angledangle I feel ya… do you know why is more difficult for you to interact with the opposite gender compared to your own?
@Rainstorm could you elaborate how?
Because of physical symptoms of anxiety. I can interact, but don’t remember any female friends. I only interact when females interact with me.
Some girls are just easier to talk to because they do most of the talking or are very warm towards me but I cant talk to a shy girl
Sometimes, yes. Especially if the woman is particularly attractive. I feel guilty for having dirty thoughts even before having dirty thoughts, lol.
Oh yeah, I’m able to talk to “hot” girls, but I remember having a hard time interacting with my crushes lol.
Usually with a bloke seeing a member of the opposite sex - its because they are thinking with their cock.
Some men fail to realise that you can have a a friendship with a female - without wanting to bonk them.
I think I just learned this like a year ago lol
@anon31960475 better late than sorry!
@Naarai I also fall for the first paragraph. But having a female friend can be very rewarding (from a male’s perspective). You learn a lot of stuff lol.
I started off bad. I wasn’t good looking when I was young and had poor social skills. I think the only reason I get along halfway decently with the opposite sex is because I grew up with two sisters close to my age. It helped also that my sisters had nice women friends and I got along with them very well.
I suffer from anxiety when it comes to women. That’s why I haven’t experienced love, ever.
My thoughts is that genes are very powerful and I inherited some sucky ones.
Too bad women are very shallow when it comes to men that seem insecure, nervous or have anxiety.
No.
I am better at communicating with males. Like in a room full of people I would more fear female than male.
But closest in my life are females. I mean best friends in my life are girls.
I would say gender doesnt matter, the personality your interacting with matters.
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