Yes, I ignore coincidences now. I may notice them for a second but disregard them soon after. For example someone posted the last 4 digits of my parents phone number in a post recently(as a matter of fact, I believe it was you @anon84377678 , talk about coincidences). Now I could’ve taken that as some sort of sign or indication that that member was spying on me but I didn’t, I realize that it was just a coincidence.
I can’t begin to imagine the peace it must bring you to be able to ignore those coincidences… I still can’t and am on various AP’s, oh well. I’m happy for you! Wish you well on your journey.