Do you ever feel lonely

My kids are here and I’m watching hockey. I just feel so lonely inside. My stomach feels like it is churning and flipping. I am usually right into the game. Today i can’t be.

Yeah, but then I’m always actually alone.

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Yes. Ive been feeling lonely recently. But even if I was surrounded by people I don’t think it would make a difference. I don’t know why that is.

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I am both alone and lonely, I don’t go anywhere or see anyone most of the time.

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I am sorry you feel so lonely…are you and your partner happy? can he help you feel less lonely?

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I’m with you. I don’t know how i would find a girl that would put up with AS, and sz. Maybe I need to go to the pycheward again to find a girlfriend haha

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I don’t have a partner and hope that I never do again

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I met a couple of females in the psych hospital.

@FatMama that strikes me as very sad…why wouldn’t you want to fall in love again? There are good men out there…

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They will want affection and more. That is more than I’m willing to give. Maybe when the kids are all grown I’d consider it. But only if he’ll watch hockey with me lol. Ì laugh but I’m not kidding lol.

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Yes, I feel lonely like that. It is usually when everyone is home, but I am isolated to my room. It makes me feel so left out. I also struggle when no one is home. I thrive on being around my family, and I need them for my mental health. Otherwise, I’m nothing.

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@FatMama
I’m so sorry you aren’t feeling as connected tonight.

I feel lonely, even when I’m around my husband and kids. Though I love them so much!

To those of you who want love, a husband or a wife, I want that for you, too. Don’t give up. You never know where or when you will meet someone. And don’t think someone would not want you because of your diagnosis. There are compassionate, kind, real people out there who understand the struggles of life and will love you through them.

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I live alone in a small studio apartment in a small town where I know many of the people so I can’t say I’m lonely. There are three words that I totally love.

Simplicity
Solitude
Silence

If I didn’t have those things in moderate doses I would have taken the grand exit many moons ago.

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Well I feel lonely when I can’t talk to my sister on the phone. Like yesterday when she was having a root canal. I’ve been alone since my mom died last February. I don’t have any family other than my sister nor any friends.

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Based on my own experience,I found the loneliness comes from the inability to do reading or to work. When you can work or think or explore, you will never feel lonely. So when I was tired and could not do reading, I listen to music or turn on radio. Sometimes I went out to take a walk in the park.

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So did I. I just feel more comfortable around girls that understand what i go through. I didn’t mean it in a bad way. Sorry

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Mostly when I was a child.dgaf now days

I feel very lonely. I want companionship but cause of my illness I can’t get married. I don’t think I can handle the responsibilities of marriage. Plus its prohibited to have pre marital sex or masturbate in my religion. So I can’t do anything. If I had disability benefits in my country could have married but we don’t. I don’t like social situations either. I searched online if there were any NGOs or groups that gave financial aid to people with mental illness but couldn’t find

Sometimes I feel lonely. I have a few friends and a husband and kids so I don’t know why. I guess I really just feel unloveable. And that makes me feel alone and sad. But my husband is very good to me. So i have something really good in my life that many people don’t have. All I should feel is thankful.

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