Do I come across as arrogant on here?

Perhaps I’m being too focused on myself, as usual, but I’m wondering this since seeing people say this about another forum member in another thread. I realize I’m high functioning; I don’t think I brag that up, but maybe I’m wrong, maybe it comes across that way. I talk about work knowing that most of you are unable to do it, but really I’m just talking about my day, and work happens to be the dominant thing for me during the week. I don’t know, I just wonder about this. I apologize if I have come across as arrogant or in any way condescending.

Please, though, do not resort to bashing that other member on my thread. I really don’t like that; it’s one thing to butt heads with another member, but something else to launch personal attacks/insults against them.

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It is important that we can talk about our day. You’re completely fine, keep doing what youre doing.

As for that other member. He chides others in a loving way, and sometimes he gets chided back. Think of us as a family of wrestling puppies.

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I never felt that you came off that way. I feel inspired actually!

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I read many of your posts and I never think you are arrogant. Beside, arrogance can be a good thing.

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I never noticed anything arrogant from you. I don’t think you have much to worry about.

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Nope. Never noticed you being arrogant at all. :sunny:

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I never felt that way about you. It’s one thing to talk about your day and a completely other thing to put people down for not being as high functioning or not trying hard enough. You don’t do those things.

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Eating lollipops, and basking belly up in the sun.

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You don’t come across as being arrogant @freakonaleash.
Maybe a little self absorbed, but lots of people with SZ come across this way.
Including myself.
It’s normal.

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You have a job, presumably money because of that, but also very considerate. Maybe showing more of that will make you feel better?

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No, absolutely not.

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Do I come across as arrogant on here?

I don’t see it, you seem like a nice person

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I don’t think people should feel guilty for being successful.

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No, I dont think you are concieted. People just talk about what they did that day. If that includes work then so be it.

I dont think there will ever be a total under standing between 2 people of which one has limited work experience while the other is nose to the grind stone.

They may not understand or share commom problems every day of life, but i still see no reason why the two could not get along.

I also think there could be many here who did infact work at least part time or even full time in the past.

Speaking for myself, i do the kind of work that is unpaid in exchange for rent. It is still difficult as any job though at times.

no apology needed here. lol

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Nah you don’t come off that way.

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Maybe the problem is you’re not arrogant enough, lol.

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Seeing people who do well, especially with mental illness, makes me feel very happy. The one problem is when they keep coming back to the forum with concerning issues…

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Not at all bro. You’ve always come across as very nice and down-to-earth to me.

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Thank you all for the reassuring comments. I worry about stuff like that, coming across all wrong and whatnot.

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This puppy prefers smelly gym sneakers!

I’m a golden retriever I guess.