do any of you have a life…and if so how do you manage it
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personally I have no life
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I guess I do, since I have work, school, and a boyfriend. I schedule things, haha. Household duties are cared for by my bf, so I’m freed up to focus on work and school. Without him, like I’ve said before, I’d live like a slob because that would be severely neglected.
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I…don’t relatively. I’m only in the 2nd year of my illness and my symptoms are quite severe. Especially the avolition type ones which make it hard for me to get things started…I spend a lot of time in my room.
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@Anon10 Get a gym membership like that of @anon1571434. You’ll meet some nice women while you are working out.
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I have no life, yes I work but really its a waste of time
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At least you’re getting paid more than disability/SSI and or minimum wage.
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Not really business is slow, and bills keep coming in
nope, no life here. I do the same repetitive things every day. If it wasn’t for SSI, i’d have no income
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You can pay bills for those necessities. I can’t even afford a smartphone or pay the monthly bill for one.
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I think athletic women are attractive, but I have certain biases which prevent me from going. For one, I have a treadmill at home. Also, I like running outside more even though I currently don’t do it. Finally, the whole bulking up thing just isn’t for me. I don’t like having big gym muscles, I feel like its not functional strength. I would much rather just run alone outside listening to good music with no pressure. I could never join a running group or club, I don’t have the discipline to keep up. Also, I’m just 5’8 so bulking up would lead to me looking even shorter. Not good.
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Well, you don’t have to bulk but just maintain a certain strength. Also, going to a gym allows you to socialize. If you find athletic women attractive then go for just the eye candy. You might make a few workout buddies on the way while checking out the women there. I can comprehend you running/jogging by yourself since it gets the task done instead of talking to your workout buddies and accomplishing nothing. Hey I’m under 6 foot too and you don’t have to be bulk but be physically defined.
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Maybe it will happen, in my experience though, not everyone at the gym is eye candy…people are mostly just there to stay healthy.
I am sure I would get big bulky muscles too, some guys in my family just have those genetics. Like my cousin in the army, he just has those good muscle attachments and everything, after 2 weeks in the gym he looked huge. I don’t want that.
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My life is ok
I get out
But I don’t have any relationship much except parents
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im the same… my parents are my only true friends
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I have a bit of a life. I just work. pay me bills. And that’s it. Hopefully I will not get a relapse. then I am f u ck ed…
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Yes and our parents grow old
I have an amazing life. I work part time in sales. I really have my own business in sales. I pray, meditate, do yoga, play keyboard, read, do social media, and volunteer. I also own rental property. I really have a well rounded and full, complete life despite my sza.
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That’s good @SkinnyMe.
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Thank you @Tomasina!
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