I can’t say that I have been abused sexually. But abuse I have received plenty. Right from when I was four or five. And the trauma continues till this day. I am now over fifty.
I can thus in a way relate to people who suffered abuse. No matter what kind.
The bad part is that you are too young to fight back. As people grow older the frustration manifests itself in many different ways.
Horrible…
I felt disgusted, shame and regret everytime I had unwanted sex due to Abilify. No issues and no more unwanted sex now on Risperdal.
Just chatted with a counselor i feel so much better, thanks guys. I huge weight is off my shoulders now, i can heal now and move forward.
it’s hard to say or blame my mother, or any kind of What makes a parent a good parent
but she kinda believed I should be able to do whatever I want and have a carefree childhood. But you could say it was neglect. I don’t have lots of memories of her being around. Then my current step dad moved in with us.
To avoid this with my son, we did lots of fun, social events together. I’ve pretty much made my kids my life.
Your great mother for that.
I was taken advantage of and abused by different people throughout my life.
Lots of bullying took place.
My ex wife was abusive.
She suffered from various mental health issues.
One of them was untreated borderline.
a femala babysitter i had as a very small baby resented me because i was born with emotional issues. she then raped me with sticks until i passed out and after that i couldn’t use the bathroom so to speak and everyone thought i was going to die of it all.
this same babysitter still does whatever she thinks she can get away with at me even though i no longer need her services.
strange how things are run around here.
judy
I was taken from a party after being drugged. They kept me there for 3 months until I escaped. It was Hell. I’m just now starting to deal with it with a counselor. I’m really screwed up from it
Im sorry to hear that, thats terrible, where here for you if you need to talk about it.
Thanks so much @oe1489
Theres horrible people in the world, that will treat like sh@t, degrade you. think your a nodbody its not true believe me. I was told this im a nobody. Dont believe negative talk, the issue is with them not you.
That is so horrible. Wasn’t she convicted?
she is free. unbelievable but true. judy
How awful. I’m sorry you had to go through that.
Thanks @anon6551389
I’ve just had stalkers who have bad sexual energy. You experience worse things when they’re in a different apartment than actually having sex with someone.
I faced years of sexual abuse starting before I was in preschool. I’m still traumatized and still processing it.
I want you to know that there is absolutely NOTHING about your situation for anyone to judge you for. Abuse is something that will only ever be the abusers fault. They decided to abuse you. Not you. I am so sorry you dealt with that.
And I’m sorry you’re hurting… Idk if that hurt ever goes away, but I’ve learned talking about it and taking time to process it helps. Please reach out to your pdoc or mental health team about this when you’re ready. I’m wishing you the best in your recovery friend.
Just going through all of the comments. I am so glad you reached out. It takes a ■■■■ ton of bravery to do. The good news is, it gets better.
thanks alot. i just told my counselor, it was difficult to tell her but i feel better now when i did.
i was sexually abused a couple times and i have traumas about it but i try to not focus too much on it anymore…
I think it’s good you get this off your chest now @oe1489 … that’s really brave of you