This is my concern.
What if they see us masturbating or having sex etc?
I’m more concerned about my boyfriend that passed watching me on the toliet.
Then they’re some kinky people, watching me during those times instead of looking away. Shame on them
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Dead ancestors are probably tired of seeing people masturbate particularly if they are centuries old
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No, what if they are attached to their living relatives and can’t look away?
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Then it sounds like they are being punished if they can’t look away. Punished to be eternally trapped to the living ancestors. Doesn’t sound like a peaceful afterlife
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Believe me no one is watching you mastirbate. No one cares about that, no offense. Your ancestors are just gone, your alive.simple.
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Maybe my ancestors are like guardian angels watching over me.
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Sometimes I believe other dimensional beings are watching me live my life and they mess with us and give us a hard time. 
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I doubt anyone who has love for you is trying to freak you out and cause you guilt (loved ones on the other side i believe want to help).
But maybe what turns you on, may cause you guilt…just guessing…not judging and that guilt makes you want to hide…thus making your mind torture yourself by feeling exposed - even when your not.
Well after seeing you poop for 40 years I think seeing you masturbate would be pretty tame.
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They’re gonna learn a few new things.
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Well the internet is full of porn. Maybe our ancestors like that kind of stuff as we do.
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Your ancestors had sex or you wouldn’t be here- doubt your doing anything they haven’t done before.
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Yes, that’s what I think. They have done the same. It’s natural. But still when I start to masturbate I always think of them as eyes in the sky
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Sounds like a terrible way to spend paradise. What about grandparents? Do they stay on duty or go do something else (play pinball, shuffleboard, etc), and when would it end. Again, seems like some crappy eternity…watching relatives. This is all a Catholic idea.
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Schizophrenics often over think things. Masturbation is cool and natural till you make it a problem. I’ve done that in the past and It got me thinking to get some psychiatric care…but it wasn’t the masturbation which was the problem it was that latent paranoia.
Seriously. Enjoy yourself in the now and stuff the tomorrow. Who cares? Your spirits won’t because it makes them feel the now and it’s all been done before…
Honestly. It seems like a cop out. Your just building excuses why you can’t enjoy yourself. Build bridges my friend and move on to more important things like relationships. Masturbation, if not excessive, is just a part of life even when your in a relationship!
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Thanks guys. It’s not about sin, it’s about being shy to do that in front of them, when I feel they’re watching. The problem here is my idea that they’re watching, a form of paranoia, I guess
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Assuming what you say is correct, how would they feel? You’re not the only person in the world who’s choked their chicken. I’m sure everyone in paradise has wanked it a few times. Don’t let paranoia get the best of you. 
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Paranoia is a cruel master my friend. I lived it for way too long!
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