Or flicking the bean. Everyone is represented.
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I have a libido itās just not directed at anybody. (Ie Iāve never been sexually attracted to anyone before) I fantasize normally but have no desire to carry out anything I fantasize about in real life as I am so grossed out by the actual thing.
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Job applications are a problem these days when get to sex M/F
I mean I love to F but usually alone so have to put down M
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youāll find someone who makes these things suddenly less gross for some reasonā¦ and thatās just loveā¦
probably find it difficult to appreciate anyone cause youās a genius!
Hey same here!
except thatās more like twice a week. HAR HAR!
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You canā¦15151515
I donāt know how you do it in there it takes me like 40minutes I canāt be arsed
It helps me. Like anna said, lots of feel good, soothing, sleepy chemicals are flooded in your brain. I havenāt skipped a day in months. It helps me sleep and calm down. Natureās xanax.
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Yes, sex in general relieves stress. Unless youāre doing it while driving on the freeway or in line for a Bruce Springsteen concert.
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Did you know itās anything can happen Thursday 
I have found masturbation to be an effective, natural way to help relieve anxiety. In fact, the sole reason I subscribe to an Internet porn website is scientific research on its anxiolytic effectiveness.
I would use masturbation as an adjunct to medication, exercise, meditation, etc., for sole use for extreme anxiety will lead to excessive masturbation which may result in bodily harm and interfere with activities of daily living.
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No I wonāt because I have so much anxiety around the issue that I completely avoid and/or shun guys in reality. Iām never going to have a relationship at this point and itās just depressing.
Heys you the ā ā ā ā ā ā ā ā anna every gal shouldā¦ men are evil creeps
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How can you masturbate with the voices? I donāt hear them on meds, but when I did the whole process would traumatized me.
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I just stop for a sec and say āok thanks for sharingā or āno thatās unreasonableā or one of the other lines my therapist gave me, and get back to it. Iām used to doing that throughout the day no matter what Iām doing, so it isnāt that odd anymore. It used to be really traumatizing, like you said. But now i just use some coping skills and Iām good.
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Iām prefacing this statement saying I know this sounds weird: but Iām really impressed by that. It gives me courage. Thanks for sharing.
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Amen to thaaaat
But actually itās unfortunate since I was a tomboy growing up and got along better with guys than girls. I miss having guy friends 
āWant to spice up your love life? Try rguing with the voices in your head while making love!ā
Iām just playing around. But seriously thatās awesome advice and Iām gonna try it, because it can be pretty traumatic just trying to masturbate.
I hate that word. |:
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Ah yes. Let me guess, as a tomboy the guys would eventually want to date you. Thatās why you donāt have guy friends now. Maybe get some gay guy friends?
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its better when someone masturbates for you. But with the meds, umm nah Id rather get some rest.