I like to create a chore/reward system for myself. For example i will clean the kitchen and then once its done i can have that coffee or have a nice shower and start reading a good book or whetaver takes your fancy. Basically putting what you actually want to do off, until youve done what needs to be done.
I posted something recently. Will up it. Marians housekeeping project or so. People gave me a few useful tips! Perhaps they help you. I struggle with this.
For me personally, because I need to do so much now, my social worker will help me clean the house fully the next weeks. So I can start over. It is overwhelming if you have so much to do. If it is clean again, it is easier to keep it clean. I think I will always need someone to help me with it.
Taking real good care of myself in other ways (sleep/food/etc) helps me. It lessens the ADHD-ish symptoms. And increases energy.
Breaking it down into extremely tiny bits somehow helps. We talked about a few options in the other thread to break it down. Cleaning is overwhelming for me. It is sensorily unpleasant. And sometimes triggers PTSD. No clue why. I need to do it in tiny bits, then reward myself and relax, then a tiny bit.
Inviting someone helps. I am embarassed to show them the mess, so clean up a bit. I would also make a deal with my social worker. E.g. I will clean the hallway upstairs before tuesday. Tuesday you can see it. I’m embarassed for it to be a mess, so I clean.
Kid being here often helps me as well. I clean the rooms that he comes into well enough for him not to be uncomfortable.
That’s what helps me a bit. It is still a mess though. So
Thank you for replying I relate to quite a bit of it!! Good luck getting things cleaned!!
I relate heavily to the sensory issues I found wearing gloves helps with that a bit. It’s still unpleasant but it helps me a little.
I also relate to the PTSD part a bit. Sometimes when I’m going through stuff I’ll run into something that reminds me of the past and it messes with my head. It’s really hard.
I believe in both of us though we’ll get things clean!!