Well none of the kids there who are all my age or maybe 1 year younger even acknowledged my existence.
Well whatever F them
The only ones who acknowledged me was my family…which was like 7 people I see often. I guess I shouldn’t complain I honestly didn’t give it a chance. I left after about 30 minuets to smoke a cigar. And only came back for the food. Just got a horrible vibe. Everybody drinking (I’m a recovering alcoholic who doesn’t drink). Bad pop music playing. The food was good and one of the caterers was really friendly to me actually and she was hot. But none of these kids even acknowledged I existed. Oh well I’m used to being invisible.
At least the father of the bride who’s real cool to me was happy so that makes me happy…
It was a nice wedding…just wish it was schizophrenic themed
Yep if I ever get married and have a big wedding I will make it schizophrenic themed and you all will be invited. Maybe
The groom is like a real good looking guy but has one of the blandest personalities I’ve ever known. Trying not to be mean but he really has little personality I wished him congratulations when I saw him in the morning and he kinda just ignored me. The bride is my cousin and I talked to her in the morning she was real nice and all and happy to see me. Didn’t talk to them again the rest of the day. But whatever.
Why is that @everhopeful ?
I personally am going to be a single haredi man, but formally it is considered a commandment to marry,
so if people observe a commandment I am happy to participate in that.
(especially since in haredi weddings there is gender separation)
@Jonnybegood I planned to study Mathematics, and to be a Mathematics researcher\lecturer at the Hebrew University of Jerusalem. And that is exactly the direction that I will pursue, after a change in my genetic parameters.
The groom was probably nervous or something. Weddings are mostly for the enjoyment of the woman anyways, or so I take it. Good job making the trip. Weddings can be stressful.
Hey man your looking fly. I have had people ignore me too. Who cares, they don’t define you. Big social events can be hard, for people with SZ especially.
I plan to be a Mathematics researcher\lecturer at a college in the Jerusalem area,
but that is not the most important thing for me.
The most important is studying Talmud with the boys at a yeshiva.
I got the idea because the brides father used to always complain that he had no personality. They’ve been dating for 12 years. Well the brides father would always say “he’s wayyy too quiet”. And while I was psychotic I once said something like “it’s HER choice Who she wants to be with” and I think that changed his opinion forever on how to judge him.
But really he’s just shy and timid. I shouldn’t say no personality. He probably is outgoing to his friends.
I regard you @Jonnybegood for turning yup at the wedding itself…I missed my sisters wedding due to feeling insecure…you have strong character fro turning up in the first place
I went to the brunch this morning and I was very tired/cranky. I can be funny in those situations. I have a very dark and quick witted humor especially in these situations of crankiness. My family finds me funny at least. But I had to leave I was so freaking exhausted. And I went to bed earlyyyy, but I woke up at 5 am so that’s why.
I am going to my brother’s wedding next June. I’m excited about it. We are even sleeping there for two nights. Its quite a big wedding I think. If I really feel the need I will go n stay in the bedroom.
weddings are mostly about the bride, i think if i went to a wedding i’d love to dance with the bride even if it was my cuz lol (well i’m not dancing with the groom) thats fo sure
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