II live with the mentally ill and I can tell you the most lovable member of the family is out stray tomcat, Ashton. The rest of us are either cold or upset.
Yes, I feel completely unlovable.
You have to be entertaining in some way to be loved.
Right. You have to work to be loved.
I feel unlovable, but I do have a lot of love to give.
Well, you put yourself in a bind if you have love to give and won’t accept being loved for it.
Given the reactions I have received from women when I tell them I have schizophrenia, yeah, I am unlovable from that perspective.
My parents love me though.
But the women’s reactions are to an idea not necessarily reactions to you.
I will say it’s difficult to love a painfully tense person. And we are that.
My sisters probably love me in a sisterly way. Maybe my step-mom.
The rest of the world? Not so much.
Hell no. I’m cute and smart and funny, I’m sort of a catch
I feel unlovable but yet I am very loved.
Is that like can’t take a compliment?
I felt loved around my grandmother and when outside of my mom’s home as a kid. Feel loved by immediately family now. Feel kind of used by my cat, but, she has issues.
I just feel like I’m a burden but in spite of those feelings my family still loves me. It’s in my head I guess.
My former friends and roommates loved me until I turned depressed and psychotic. It’s definitely hard. My immediate family loves me and I love them.
I feel unlovable too. Sometimes I feeli don’t deserve love… also I don’t feel I have much to offer.
Well, don’t forget it’s a give and take situation. I’m sure your family has times when they seem like a burden to you, too.
You too. What is wrong with those prancing tree mongers? I thought I was the only one.
Mine was re-homed to me from a cat hoarder. She didn’t get along with the rest of the hoarder’s cats and spent three years living in a cramped bedroom with the daughter. Couldn’t roam around. Pretty sure it damaged her psychologically as much as you can a cat, anyhow. Her hair was hard and bristly when we got her. She is now much softer and calmer, enjoys cuddling more.
Edit: You can tell she loves having space as well.
I felt unlovable until I got married I suppose…
Even now though I feel like I am boring and not entertaining enough