Are you lonely?

Hey guys, as above1 thoughts?

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Hello ! Yes I am still lonely, even though 5 months ago I was extremely lonely. Now I have a boyfriend but I have to accept his privat space and time, and I wish I had some girlfriends to spend some time with when my boyfriend need some days away from me. But life with schizophrenia is not as bad as before I met him.

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Yes. Nearly everyone I know lives out of state for me. I’m living with family and talk to them. Have treatment team who talks to me. I don’t know. Haven’t had a relationship in many years. Talk to people either over the phone or on Facebook now and then. I don’t get out much other than to go to the store so I don’t meet people. So that’s me right now.

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All my life. 。°。°。°。°。°

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Yes oh so lonely. I want to feel comfortable with someone my age.

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I have my brother but I also want a boyfriend lol.

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Don’t know you can call it solitude or loneliness. You voluntary choose not to be part of today’s society. You always have an option to be part in a social club. Of course you need to compromise with others, but when you want to do your own way you will be lonely :slightly_frowning_face:.

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Sometimes I feel I am all alone completely. But it helps to know that others are going through this.

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I have been lonely before but not much right now. I get to make some small talk at work.

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I’m one of the most isolated people in existence. I say “existence” because I’m not a part of this world. I have very very slowly been adapting to being alone and no longer feel feral. I have a twelve step meeting I can get to where the people are damaged like me, I just need to prepare ahead of time to get there. The hours after midnight and dawn are the worst for me. I need to care for myself and do something about this, I’m so callous! I don’t want to take a gamble on becoming psychotic and losing everything I have. I just have no helpmate. I contact people all day on here and texting and phone. The crisis center is good to call, even if it’s not a crises. I am preparing myself for a vacation with my family, those people I love and hate more than anyone on earth. I turn to myself and say, it’s just you and me here alone; how cold and empty is outer space.

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You don’t feel cared for, or nobody care about you. Its different to me than feeling lonely. I am lucky, i always found a partner or buddy caring for each other. Its not easy sometimes. A relationship means to make sacrifices, or you pay the price being lonely. In some cases care from the hospital is not desirable.

I have my mother. She visits me from time to time. Also my aunt calls me occasionally. I have one friend that sometimes asks me out for beers.

My problem isn’t loneliness. It’s that I don’t do anything when I’m alone. I just sleep.

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I get a teeny bit alone feeling at times but not often. That’s because even though I live alone (and love it), I have tons of hobbies, interests, activities and just general things to do to keep me busy and happy.

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I honestly love being alone so much because my thinking becomes so much clearer and i can contemplate life.

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Nope. But im around people a lot. I honestly like my alone time when i get it.

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I need to be alone a lot.

I think that’s because how people want to supress n dominate me etc I avoid them when they want to put me down to make themselves look better.

I loved being with my x 24/7 but we went so beautifully together.it was perfect family.
Except his friends wanted to boss me about n I didn’t like that.

I have no friends as such.

Except my x boyfriend I call on phone every fortnight and my other x i emails sometimes.

I have a boyfriend I see weekends.
He is a beautiful person n I enjoy his company n his great in bed.:joy::slightly_smiling_face:

I would love to have friends.

I don’t agree with many things in society and I don’t believe in obeying for me to obey no no no.
Ask me n I can say yes or no.
I don’t think royals are superior even though I adore them.
I am against factory farming etc
I even vote animal justice party.
I don’t know if I’m a anarchist I don’t think so but a touch ?

My stand makes it difficult to have friends too.

My x would stop all contact with me if he found out I would not take orders from royals n do g see them as my superior because he loves hierarchy but I have different stand than him.

The one I love most is like my opposite.
Can our love survive that?

Got to be true to myself.

I am lonely but at the same time I need to be alone all the time or most of time.

A chat friend would be nice.

I want to dance rock n roll.

I would love to have friends but I have to be true to myself and who I am and who I want to be.

Who can love that no ifs or buts .

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I can’t stand being around most people so I rather be alone than with them.

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I really don’t like being in any kind of relationship.
Whether its romantic or a friendship.

Getting close to another human being sends shivers down my spine.

Leave me the fukk alone is my motto.

I’m becoming antisocial as I age.

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I think introverts like to be alone naturally.

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Loneliness is my normal.

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