Are u a people pleaser

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Goddamit I am I wish I wasn’t.

I’m going to start being a dickhead from now to people.

No one will ever walk over me again.

Are u a people pleaser.

Kind regards
Wallafish

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I treat people with respect, sadly many do not do the same

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I know what you mean, I should also drop off pleasing in a way I have been doing it. I’m ok to be doing it differently in the future.

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I’m people friendly because I like most people in this world. I am even willing to help those bad people if they are in need. But this doesn’t mean I want to please them or reward them because they are bad people.

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ha, how do you tell who’s a bad person?

We all have flaws. Do you mean they treat you bad?

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I’m not saying anyone is bad. I’m just saying I’m a people pleaser always saying yes sigh

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I was talking to @green5

yeah, you be alright, @anon97118089

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It seems lots of us Sz’s have a difficult relationship with rest of the people. Our will is just like it should, but our emotions and inner world is quiet a struggle. Before I got ill it was a lot easier to manage relationships with the others.

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I often wonder if mentally I’ll have a higher eq than most normal people

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I like to stick with developing a talent

and not so much on smarts.

My IQ is 115. that’s fine with me. I know some things.

My best friend blows me away in history,
often wonder if you don’t know where you came from,
you won’t know where your’e going.

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Developing talent sounds like a good plan. As a music producer, i’m up for it too.

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it breaks through with normals too

the people who sell art in my area, most are mentally ill.

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Good question! Yes, we all have flaws, but not all the flaws people have lead to intentional harm towards other people. I call those who had done intentional destructions to other people and the society such as abuse, fraud, corruption. the bad people.

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I am most of the time, and you’re right that it doesn’t make things easier. I come across sometimes as an a**-kisser and also stupid, and I’m neither. But I’m so socially inept that I overcompensate with niceness…

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im nice, but if you cross me im pretty vengeful lol.

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I’m a nurse - you bet i’m a people pleaser. Having said that, i put in boundaries. I’ve been burnt in the past too, it sucks and it hurts. But the response isn’t to turn into one of those people. You’ve got to be better than that. There is nothing wrong with trying to do good, but putting up firm boundaries with people, especially with people you may have reason to think would abuse your good nature. This has stopped people abusing me, and i get to continue pleasing people as i see fit.

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What’s the matter, don’t you feel pleasured by me?

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I try to be polite but I’m not a people pleaser

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I want to be a people pleaser, but conversely, not be addicted to approval. Kind of a quandary there.

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