Have you tried scopolamine patches? I needed to use them when I first started VR exercise as it gave me horrible motion sickness. I was able to taper off the patches in about two months and the VR no longer bothers me.
The advice was to start with the patches and then taper off slowly to acclimatize to the VR environment. I started the patches last September. I was playing without them by mid-December.
When I was about 24 to 25, and an associate engineer in a manufacturing engineering department, with an associate degree in industrial electronics and a partially completed BS in computer science, I dreamed that I would go back to school and complete my BS, and then become an engineer again later.
That dream was shattered. I didn’t realize how badly the great recession would hit. A few months after I left, someone ran some planes into the world trade center. I also didn’t realize how hard it would be to get a hardware engineering job again without a hardware engineering degree. It so happened I was in one of the few local places that did that, I guess.
I struggled with low paying jobs for years, and my dreams and confidence were sort of shattered for a few years, as you indicate. I started getting back on track in 2009.
I secretly aspired to win a Nobel prize when I was little. Oscars didn’t appeal to me, but Nobels wow, I used to daydream about it a lot. Someone should’ve taught me early that dreams without action mean nothing. I was, and still am a triple A slacker.