So, my fiance said her dad told her that the church is mostly interested in making money and they may not be interested in having a small wedding (few people) where they cant make much money. So then she decided maybe we should just go to a judge when we do. My brother in law said that his wife could marry us , as she is a justice of the peace, for free. So we were kind of excited about that. Then, the church call her back and then suddenly she is back on board with the catholic wedding.
So I just today told her that we should probably set a date to make this decision for sure and stick by it. I said maybe the beginning of next month. Everybody needs advance warning on this stuff. Both my brother in law and his new wife and the church. She seems on board with setting that decision date. She cant keep waffling like this. It only stresses her and everyone else out. But particularly her. She wants a religious wedding but not the hassles that come along with it.
On the house front. Iām still searching. It may take awhile to find the quality of the last home in my price range that doesnt have the flaws that chased me away from the last house in the end. But I am confident that wiht my brother in laws help, we will be able to get one before marriage occurs.
Iām in a long term commitment with my left hand.
Preparations for our wedding were drawn to a halt when my right hand got overly jealous and slapped my face.
Self deprecating humor.
TBH my life is pretty dull right now.
I felt inspired by @MisterApple 's recent interest in physics and briefly considered applying for a degree this Fall. But there are pros and cons. The upsides would be getting away from my current job thatās sucking most joy out of life, and meeting new people. Downsides include financial burden on my savings account and lack of future opportunities (I doubt theyāll let me teach in a school given my diagnosis). Havenāt decided yet.
Sounds like things are going really well for you. Iām glad.
I received a telepathic message from a crow today. But Iām aware itās weird. Iām undecided if itās real or not.
Iām still recovering from ankle surgery so I havenāt gone back to work yet. I saw the surgeon today and I may be ready to return in 6 weeks (I do a lot of walking and lifting at work).
My life update. I spent an entire day in bed twice last week. I was really tired but not because of the medication, just feeling discouraged. I spent a few days cleaning my apartment because Iām supposed to have inspection ( they never came ). I feel better with my Apt clean, Iād worry about it for a long time and take walks instead of cleaning.
