A person said this to me today

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I asked him are physical looks important to you in a relationship?

He said,

I don’t want to date a horse.

What about you, how much importance do physical looks play in choosing your partner, in relation to personality.

Like, what is, if anything, important when thinking about physical looks of a person.

Like, someone (same person) said to me he said, I want them to make effort with their health and presentation , but a big nose or dry hair for example, is not an issue.

The same person said perfectionism is basically a scam when it comes to physical looks.

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Pretty important, not SUPER important, but it’s up there.

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A friend of mine said that it’s important, but the least important of all factors considered in a partner. For him.

So, still important tho

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I don’t want to date a horse either.

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the way someone looks is important

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@77nick77, I don’t really know what they meant by that. But I don’t think it’s meant to be super insulting because they also don’t believe in perfectionism and because they said they were speaking with regards to making an effort.

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An attractive horse walks into a bar and sits on a stool. The bartended says to her, “Why the long face?”

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Did you make that up? 15charcters

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thats an old joke

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I’m pretty sure he was using dry humor and not actually calling you a horse.

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I wish. @Csummers told that one in 2016.

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Oh I don’t think he was referring to me.

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No, I wasn’t.

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I mean that’s good. Just wondered why you related this to a romantic scenario if it was not something a romantic partner said to you.

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I think people are attracted to people that look like themselves sometimes. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder really. I think love is blind also. Me personally I can’t say I’m not shallow. I do care but I shouldn’t.

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Yeah, that was around before 2016.

How about this one : A dog walks into a western saloon with a bandage around his paw.

He gruffly says "I’m looking for the man who shot my pa(w).

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It was just a discussion with someone about relationships.

To get a opposite sex person’s opinion.
Men don’t think alike.

But I was interested in this guys opinion.

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I don’t like women who have done “beauty” treatments like Botox and fillers in their lips. To me it looks like a baboons arse in the middle of their faces. Also I don’t get this whole tanning trend? The skin becomes wrinkly and takes damage.

I like natural women without too much makeup. If she’s Botoxed, tanned, tattooed, has done surgery then she is not going to be my type!

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Im laughing a little because there was a comedy cartoon about a man with a horses head who was always trying to get girls. He couldn’t. :joy:

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