59 years old, never had a girl freind

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Yes definitely never look at women like they are godesses. That is setting yourself up for a huge disapointment. Its all nice and fine when you are courting her and both of you have butterflies etc. but love tends to be tied to conditions and when they change so does her love. It can turn into something real nasty. So women are unstable and change, this is not Godlike behavior. Neither are men but somehow more men look for a Godess in their partner than the other way around. Women tend to think less idealistic in looking for a partner. They know us better.

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Dont give up hope. My friend is married with a man who is 30 years her senior. He never had a girlfriend before, and she never had a boyfriend, he was about your age back then. They are happily married. So it is not impossible.

I had several relationships but am very scared of starting a new one, because I was damaged by them and I dont think id still be a stable partner. So having a relationship is not everything either.

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You arnt missing out on much

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yeah, thatā€™s basically what Iā€™ve been telling this dude.
but heā€™s more than double my age, so I really donā€™t know how things are going for himā€¦

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I wouldnā€™t worry about it. No relationship is better than a bad relationship. Judging from what Iā€™ve heard about peopleā€™s messed up relationships, nothing is better than something like that. Personally, Iā€™m blissfully single. I like being by myself.

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Iā€™m still crying.

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Oh heavenly baby, Try me. Hold me. I may be old, but I am still living.

I want you right here by my side.

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Some day.

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Iā€™m 58, and Iā€™ve been in only one long term relationship. I quit it because there wasnā€™t enough quality communication between us. I donā€™t think a lot of women could relate to me. Itā€™s not their fault. Itā€™s mine. Iā€™m not really worried about it.

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I never had a girlfriend, but Iā€™ve been happy with what Iā€™ve gotten. A lot of those small things, in life, add up. But I learned the hard way that desired things just canā€™t be forced, that the given things should be cherished with all my heart. I also learned to be grateful for my imagination and ability to dream.

Iā€™m young. but I doubt my mindset will change.

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When you have psychotic breaks anything you have can be taken from you in the blink of an eye.
That is why I donā€™t form relationships because thereā€™s no telling what I will be like tomorrow.
The same goes for material possessions and basically everything that matters in life.
Thatā€™s why this disease is so horrible. Every time I go crazy itā€™s like being crucified and dying a thousand deaths.

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get a wad of cash and flaunt it around, guaranteed pussy

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We may change, but we are we. Love can therefore be shared between us.

What I have just said is no less than words of God.

Please hear my words, all spoken from my heart.

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Otherwise Iā€™d Rather Go Blind.

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ever try a dating website, I havenā€™t I donā€™t have credit cards or paypal or whathavveyou

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yeah OTRA, dating sites good.
I donā€™t had much luck there because they look for older men,
but that definitely wonā€™t be a problem for you.

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Some day.

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