Did I do wrong to lie?

As my dads passed my grandmother , 95 , speaks to his picture tells him that she has eaten and is looking after herself. She does this because when my dad was on his deathbed , my gran didn’t know he was going to die but my cousins gave the phone to her and I held the phone to dad She’s hard of hearing. My dad coughed a little. She thought he said something but she couldn’t hear. She was so ecstatic to hear him. When he died the next day I told grandmother dad had told her to look after herself. But reality was he had been unconscious for over 1.5 weeks. I just wanted dad to hear his mother’s voice.

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no! You were not wrong to lie. You helped. You’re still helping. There is probably plenty of other stuff to feel guilty about though if you need to.

No, you did the Honorable thing @anon80629714.

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That makes me very sad.

You did a wonderful thing ish. When you do things with a good heart, you’re never wrong.