I also think you don’t need a relationship to be happy just a lot of friends and family.
That’s what they want you to think.
Well, you can be happy with one leg and one arm amputated but I would be happier with all four limbs.
I need at least some interaction with women, but not that much. I’m no ladies’ man. I don’t need to be in a relationship to be happy.
Relationships work best when two people share their lives together, and not forget that they were an individual before they were together, and will still be an individual after.
Otherwise, it gets kind of complicated and messy.
I grew up with very little reason to relate to men. Actually enjoying them was never even thought of. Now, the deeper voice of a male thrills me a little. But that’s as far as it goes.
Didn’t read the post,. Before sz I was fascinated by women, their thoughts feelings and habits.
I thought they had the world figured out, because they are better at communication and are generally a bit physically and mentally different from men.
I also had the eccentric belief that gay men, being different than straight men in their behaviors and lifestyle, were also superior to men in the way they were wired. And also superior to straight women because they understood the world through a rare lens (I believed our sexual preference impacts the way we think and see the world.) And also because they go through a lot of persecution and other â– â– â– â– growing up which makes them more resilient. I had a stereotypical belief that they were smarter and more creative. I supported this belief by noting that most of my favorite authors, musicians and actors had usually been lgbt people.
I never had the belief that I had to depend on women for my happiness in life anymore than I would have to depend on a man.
I was interested in the physical shape and mannerisms of women.
I always viewed them as being kind of like slightly smaller men, with a slightly different temperament.
I don’t think I had the spiritual or conditioned belief that women and men needed to get married and be together. I always found the idea of marriage sort of depressing.
I wasn’t and am not a very social individual.
YUCK!!!
I can’t believe that such a foolish topic that I started would arouse such a discussion.
To be clear, I don’t think personal lives should be discussed, or at least I don’t want to initiate
discussions on this.
I don’t know if you’re addressing me or talking about my pre-sz beliefs, but I was kind of a weird individual back then…I might have been slightly delusional…but I was functioning.
ah women, c’est la vie…haha muah muah muah you beautiful woman…
Yes, all men would enjoy having a beautiful woman at their side. But that’s if you can afford to keep a beautiful woman.
Maybe? Maybe not?
But no one needs anyone to tell them what they do or don’t want. Let them decide for themselves.
To me these articles are insensitive to people’s wants/needs and mistakes their personal perception for other peoples.
Majority of the people on this planet are in relationships and have children. Otherwise the human population would be decreasing instead of increasing. Marriage is universal no matter what culture or race you are. Celebrating the wedding of a man & woman can be found on all continents of this planet.
I know you probably didn’t mean to be narrow-minded, but this is wrong.
Thankfully, many cultures also recognize and celebrate marriages between people of the same gender too.
What man doesn’t get mesmerized by a beautiful woman but yes, realistically most men just settle with a woman they like.
Sure, same-sex marriage does happen. Not many but they do occur.
Men who are gay or asexual.
I am gay and I don’t really care about women’s beauty. I’d rather look at a pretty vase.
I wouldn’t know how the mind of a homosexual is. I’m straight so I like women.
It’s pretty much like your mind except we’re interested in men. Like you are interested in women. Doesn’t take a rocket scientist to know how a gay persons mind is. And don’t call us homosexuals. That word has nasty undertones.
Well, when a heterosexual relationship gets sexual or if there are decisions about procreating, I just don’t understand what “gay” people would go through.