if someone didn’t like you?
that’s not how I operate, I take a plenty of fish in the sea approach towards people. maybe I should be more open to criticism but typically it’s a who cares thing if somebody doesn’t like me. I already spend most of my days alone, it’s not like its a big change. you get kind of set in your ways a bit after being on your own.
I won’t change, but I will adapt. If there’s an aspect of my personality someone doesn’t like, I tone it down around them.
If something I do bothers someone, I try not to do it around them.
It’s common courtesy.
I’m known for being a little too blunt at times.
I like changing in ways that I can and want to.
So if I agreed with them that changing would be good and possible, yes.
I would try to be a good listener, be more articulate, stand up for myself more, try to eat slower, be more classy.
I would change for me not for anyone else Don’t care what others think of me.
I would do certain things to keep myself in check but I’m not good at being something different.
Lol. I’d have to do a lot of changing to suit everybody.
No I wouldn’t.
I like this topic. I would change only my trastic mistakes…like yelling and badmouthing people.
Change me into what somebody else who don’t like me wants me to be?
I’d prefer the person who don’t like me change into somebody who does like me.
There is always room for improvement, but I change for me and not other people.
I think some lessons can be learned in criticism and mistakes, but any changes made should be a movement towards a better version of yourself and not just to bend to the will of another.
I would be a better mom
I think you can always improve in numerous ways. If your willing to learn and listen most folk adapt to others in relationships. A good relationship is when you both change for the better!
Well i guess it depends on what needs changing. I’m human and i make mistakes. If someone is pointing out a genuine error i have made, then i’m likely to want to rectify it. However, if someone just doesn’t like me for no good reason, well i just count my losses and move on. I don’t believe that i’m going to be everybody’s best friend and i don’t believe everyone will like me. For those who don’t like me for no reason, i take no interest in what they have to say or do. I’m trying to like myself more so i’m standing up for myself a lot more these days.
[pulls nickel out of pocket]
S’all the change you gun’ git’, bud.
Many wise answers on both sides of opinion.
I want to improve myself inside and out.
I want to be myself but improve.
I think there are things about me I do not want to change and things I would like to…
I don’t like changes, but our world is in constant change and i got to adapt. There were no smartphone when i grew up but now i changed to handle these devices.
and seasonal weatherchanges. I got to adapt.
I have a hard enough time changing for myself.
it’s hard to please some people
my mother is one of them
most of my life, I lived for my kids
and wanting to keep everything positive
I haven’t changed for Phil yet, he still dislikes a lot of things about me
but I’m not like typical women he’s used to.