Nerds, as teenagers and young adults, have been bullied for being nerds and thus lack social skills.
Most don’t do sports, so are either scrawny or pudgy.
Physical attraction is a factor. Wanting to date a surfer dude with a tight bod and sunkissed skin is completely valid.
Wanting your partner to have just a little bit of confidence and be able to pick up social cues, is also valid.
Nerds at 25+ have had jobs. In jobs, rather than school settings, nerds are valued for their intelligence and dilligence, and thus gain confidence and learn to become comfortable being who they are. Most are also forced to gain social skills to survive a corporate setting, or gain them naturally through interactions with people who aren’t their high school bullies.
So yeah, young nerds are not on top of the food chain, partner wise.
Adult nerds are more attractive.
Women who don’t colour their greys have courage and acceptance and I respect them a lot. They aren’t scared to get old. Grey is beautiful, I call them wisdom hairs. It’s a gift
On the one hand, you’ve got women of a certain age masking their greys religiously— whatever their motivation.
On the other, you have ladies starting in their early-20’s who are compelled to achieve the elusively salon-perfected “silver” hair trend (so hot right now).
Hair is a super personal thing, and it really just boils down to personal preference.
It’s a shame when women feel the need to cover their greys or alter their appearance because of some outside pressure— whether from their spouse, or society at large.
At the end of the day, I suppose whatever makes one feel confident is best.
Every statement you made in this thread is generalizing women. You said women with grey hair look washed out. I don’t think my mom looks washed out at all. You also said that women with grey hair aren’t attractive and can’t find mates. That young girls who marry older guys are gold diggers. You are making a lot of statements about women that aren’t always true. Also young women wanting surfer dudes will later settle with nerds. I mean, come on!
The rest of what I said has a grain of truth to it. Hard facts can be difficult to swallow sometimes. Or perhaps my honesty just comes from more life experience than you have.
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