Well I think that the culprit is that some people are just naturally more popular. Unless you count me as one of those people and that sounds very conceited. I don’t see myself that way in the very least. Whenever I post something I get like 4 responses if I am lucky. Pixel talks a lot so that is why you see him a lot. Sometimes he has to say something because he is a moderator. Sarad has made a good number of posts with pictures and some guys on here respond because she is attractive. I don’t feel anything though but that is because of the meds. I can still tell though.
You were knocked down to being a new user for trying to recruit people via PM to follow your bizarre TI ideas. It was an abuse of the site’s PM system. And you weren’t knocked down to that level by me or any other male, so there goes your Evil Patriarchy targeting accusation. I’d honestly love to see you get better, but that would mean you changing your behaviour.
NOT picking fights every three minutes would be an awesome place to start with that.
I’m also not 100% sure it wasn’t done on purpose. Sometimes careful selection of who you support
can mean, even Pixel will choose the pattern of defeat.
I’m rooting for you @Daze . we all make mistakes…according to set rules. I like ya tho… You’re always nice to me once we said hi a couple times…
Don’t sweat the small stuff @Daze I likes ya around and I think overall they’re pretty forgiving here … I hope, cause I find valuable support here… We all may not always agree but many of us understand each other more than the outside world does… Thanks for sharing
Oh, well… Take care tho.
I asked to be deleted the other day because I was bummed but I wish you well in whatever you do
@Daze i enjoy reading ur post and i like ur art post. (although sometimes i dont understand what people are saying cos english is not my first language… )
I did actually get that Daze. You have a clever way with words but not everyone got it. That’s always the risk with jokes, some people will get them and others won’t. Some people will find a joke funny and others won’t.
Also, people just naturally have more of an affinity with some people than with others. Everyone’s like that in real life and on the internet. It’s part of being human. I’m sure you like some people more than others too.
I’m truly sorry that you’re feeling bad about this forum.
I don’t really see the interaction on this site as a contest. I guess you feel like you have to battle people’s preconceptions (patriarchy, and what not), but I think that on this site we should look more for common ground than engage in head banging over politics. As far as I am concerned you are perfectly welcome here, but that doesn’t mean one of your posts can’t be flagged.
I don’t, either. I’ve felt that way about places like Facebook before, and it’s made me miserable. I don’t feel that way here, and I honestly feel badly for anyone who does, because that feeling just eats away at you.
I’ve often felt like I was a pest for posting my music and art stuff… But I think its my illness… There are many other artists here that I admire when they share and i hope I also have brought some smiles