Why does it make us feel nice when

Well the guy I’m seeing, I like his height. And his face
He’s dark and handsome

And tbh, with him at first I saw him as a friend but it was his touch and patience and understanding for me, that made me really fall in love with him, it’s like I grew to become attracted to him over time,

The way I look at his face now and appreciate it has changed to the way it was at the start when we were just gonna be friends initially.

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I find women very beautiful too sometimes

Like I notice them on the train

But I guess me not wanting lesbian sex puts me off being with one.

And perhaps I jst get more attracted to men anyway. It’s like a ying yang energy for me on the couch
Wheras wit a woman I don’t think I’d feel that yin yang energy attraction

That’s just me

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Thats actually quite beautiful. Your a good chick zoe. The guy you speak of is a lucky one :slightly_smiling_face:

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I’m also the lucky one. He is cute lol I tell him he is like a cat :sweat_smile:

Sometimes I do get attraction to a woman but it doesn’t go anywhere
It’s just friendship with some attraction

Anyway me and him might become friends again because I don’t know if I can cope

However, not sure.

Wired thing about a generalization about gay men. A lot love the beauty of a women, infatuated since kindergarten how pretty girls were, but like art (maybe this is offensive / objectification) and not sexual. I think its a strange phenomenon, but I think of men the same as you @Zoe

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It’s hard to comment in this thread without seeming like you are objectifying to some degree. I felt I might be overstepping a bit myself. But she DID ask about physical attractiveness, so I dont think you’re out of line.

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Yea let me just clarify there is more to a person than physical looks to me.

Lol!

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Youve never seen my elbows :smirk::cowboy_hat_face:

flashes elbows at @shutterbug

Ah no you don’t. I was just teasing you. I’m sure you wouldn’t disappoint any woman. Besides in the last mod penis length poll you were a very close second.

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TLDR: humans are evolved to like beautiful people because beauty often means a good mate or a good caretaker. Not saying it’s true, just that we are evolved to think it is imo.

I believe humans are evolved to look for a healthy mate. Conventionally “beautiful” people (according to society) are generally healthy looking. They are typically fit and symmetrical. A sign of “good” genes.

Even infants and children prefer to look at beautiful people. But instead of looking for a mate, they’re looking for a caretaker. That said, children tend to fall victim to the halo effect more often than adults do and can have skewed ideas about beauty vs. ability to care for them.

And sometimes it’s just nice to look at beautiful things as well. Art, people, nature. We are hardwired.

ahh yes. I remember it well. You came in first. bum dum dum. :smiley:

ps. i was well aware you were joking. It was feigned sadness.

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I did come in first. But maybe I was using the metric system though. :thinking:

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Why do evil face has horns and red face
And
Good face is portrayed as cute.

Defining cute has no marks on the face and child like face.

Overall,

Face resembles what one thinks :face_with_monocle:

Or

Face is defined by how many people with similar face cut has been good to you from child hood. And when you interact with that person and does not meet the expectations, I wonder weird, why was she expected to look good and she does not like me. :person_shrugging:

If I am honest I don’t feel anything because I struggle. I don’t know if it’s psychosis related or what … I wasn’t attracted to my partner until I got to know him now he’s so beautiful to me.

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