well, it is what it is on this site.
bad co-workers, Sheri? yeah, and bad bosses and supervisors.
Please be civil and supporitve. It helps everyone involved.
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well, why can’t you, and them?
People are supportive of you on this site. How many people congratulated you on your upcoming grandchild? You can be a good contributor to this site when you are not being abrasive.
abrasive? nobody calls shots like I do. it needs to be done.
not insulting, but just correcting.
and don’t fu-ck-ing say that about my post about my daughter being pregnant.
I gave Likes on comments, what more do you want?
I dont “want” anything. Just pointing out that people ARE indeed supportive of you.
well, Bowens, there’s the “I don’t like you” there’s the flags from probably half-assed women, there’s the men who say, Why do you just come on this site to vent, there’s the flags, the suspensions, the Many suspensions, the ignoreland, the hidden comments, the deleted posts, the blocking, the locked threads, the bad blood, the no comments from certain, the saying That’s against the rules to say anything goes on PM, making them up as it goes, the threats, the trying constantly to correct or condemn, the saying I’m causing dissent, but never against anyone else. yeah. it’s great to be here.
Lol. Well I can’t speak to every suspension, flag, or hidden comment you have ever gotten.
I can tell you that I try to go by the rules as best I can but some things like following the “golden rule”, treating others as we wish to be treated, is very open to interpretation. I think the mods try to do the best we can.
Why not try to let these past issues go and just try to get along with everyone. It’s good to have convictions. I can respect that…but as an example of something that you did not need to do:
Why would you need to enter the say anything and tell them it was idiocy and similar things? How does this compromise your convictions just to leave this alone. Sometimes you just seem to seek out confrontation.
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@LevelJ1 is probably asking himself that too.
idk. I never follow. never have.
@Daze . Please listen to this.
I was an ass for a long time on this website because I fought everything. I was pissed and I was righteous and I had a point. Thing was I wasn’t being civil or supportive and I was fighting ideals that really didn’t matter simply because most other people here were doing their own thing and trying to get well.
It’s not cool to come on like tonight and although I can see you may have been feeling rejected by the sayanything thread but it is a different beef entirely and it isn’t even my cup of tea. It’s not cool to get into other threads with people coming on and taking that frustration out on them and what they are doing that is just seeking support…
Please. You don’t have to fight the process but be a contributer and look out for people. You have the experience so help people. Don’t buy into the approach where your against everyone because I’ve been there and it’s isolating and eventually your fighting everything for no other reason than your pissed…
I think it’s important to be civil and supportive because it took me a long time to understand that. It means that your thinking of other members over your own issues. And yes. You can be right sometimes but being kind and supportive is more important here than anything else.
I feel like this site really bothers you. Why be involved in it if you hate everything about it?
read the first paragraph. I don’t need a lecture. I am who I am,
you don’t like it, keep suspending me, it does no good though.