What happened to you if you got in trouble

I don’t know why I had this idea, but I was just wondering.
What happened to me, and I find it funny now, but my dad made me get the belt lol. He didn’t do it hard, it was just soft. I remember telling my friends in high school and they found it hilarious.

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Yeah, I got the belt too plus getting grounded. I got hit with belt until about 7th grade. Getting grounded sucked too. When I got grounded for a day or two or a week I couldn’t go out of the house or have friends over the entire time. I remember in 10th grade I was going to see Pink Floyd in concert with a couple of friends during their Animals tour and I got grounded the week of the concert so I missed the concert. I never forgave my mom for that one.

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8 Months in the local nick. For glassing someone over the head, and having a machete. Jail is not that hard really, you just got to have the right mindset. Its the boredom that does your head in.

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Dang, that would suck. I got grounded a lot too.

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Im pretty lucky that I haven’t got into jail.

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I got hit with a metal spatula, wooden spoon, bare hand depending on how big of an offense I had done. Only once was I hit with a switch and it left marks so my dad never did it again.

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Dang, that sucks. I’m sorry you had to go through that.

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Oh it’s all good. I’m not traumatized by my punishments I got as a kid

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Yeah, me either. I guess it’s better than not getting parenting.

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Yeah I would agree. My parents did well with me until about age 12. Then things went awry. Then at age 14 I got sent to a WWASP boarding school and I will never forgive my parents

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My dad used to beat me as a kid like many dads, but he wouldn’t dare do it to me at this age.

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There used to be paddles for kids with a rubber ball attached to them with a long piece of rubber string. My mom used to say she would buy them and use the paddle if we were bad. But I don’t remember anything like that. She used to shake me, if she was mad.

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Not my proudest moment. Ive been behaving for over 10 years now.

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Just typical stuff, wooden spoon, spatula, spanking, grounded to room for a month, sit or stand facing the corner of wall for an hour, chew on bars of ivory soap, tobasco sauce, writing 100s of lines, etc lol.

Pretty mellow. I dont know if any of it ever helped though :sweat_smile:

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I was sent to my room for solitary confinement. :fish::fish::fish:

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@GrayBear Aka the grounded for the summer in your room :sweat_smile: it was a lesson in boredom lol

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Yup and no computer, TV or cell phones in the room. So lots of reading. :mouse::mouse::mouse:

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Yeah me too. Just had a cd player and books

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The stepfather suffocated me with a pillow so i couldn’t breathe and said the only reason I’m alive is because he wants to be with his son and not in jail.

Another time he held me to the ground n licked my face and another time he slapped me and pulled my hair .

They said I’m not a member of their family and I never felt loved by them but that they had some hate for me and some psychological bdsm against my will where they hurt me emotionally and then ridiculed and mocked my suffering .

I was treated differently than “siblings”.

When I was Alone with “mother” I had blood test and was malnourished I was picky with food but there wasn’t usually any food in fridge .

She said things that broke my heart that I won’t say here but kinda meant she didn’t love me.

Seems like she wanted to destroy me and when I was a little girl she kinda did destroy me psychologically.

She studied psychology but may of used it to do harm instead of good.

The stepfather and “ mother would say nätte platte är det synd om nätte plättar and mock and rideule my suffering and laugh the “mother seemed to enjoy my suffering and would laugh .

“Mother “ said he is diagnosed psycho but I wonder if she isn’t and others in “ family “ too.

The “ father” just put me in my bedroom and told me to stay there .

I wasn’t myself then and nasty things went on.

I also had class mates in one school and was liked but these girls got jealous of me and dominated me to be their “friend” I was probably their b I t c #.
Like I was threatened and made to do stuff against my will etc

Then that year in Oz as 12-13 i was not in my body .
Seriously that kinda wasn’t me.
What happened then ….

I hurt and suffered to much and cried as a child why does no one love me.

Never felt loved or space to just be me and just be.

Thankfully they said they were against hitting children but nasty stuff happened I can’t explain now.

It’s illegal to hit children in Sweden.

I don’t believe in hitting children but they do need to be told clearly when bad behaviour is not acceptable such as the children in this neighbourhood doing nazi salutes and walking over one aggressively invading one’s space .

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I just got a scary stare down

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