What age gap is too much

I don’t think 6-7 years is too much but the having a toddler might be…

I’m what sense ? As I want a child but can’t. He’s done with having kids.

Well it would be a dealbreaker for me I think. He has other commitments. He can’t be fully devoted to your life together, especially if you wanted kids of your own. For me, it wouldn’t be ideal…

That would be the case if we had our own kids too. I’m not looking for someone with me 24/7 as I like my space too. But everyone’s different.

Ok well whatever you think is best…

It’s just been a hell experience trying to find someone serious who doesn’t want children. They usually just want to muck around. :slightly_frowning_face:

Have you tried speed dating?

Yes. Nothing works. I want kids but most want their own no adoption.

Excuse me?? I am a man and feel belittled by your comment. I am definitely much more than my genital organ??!

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A few years is no big deal, if the two people are happy with whatever the age just becomes numbers

It was a joke.

Apologies.

I thought it was funny quite frankly. Ironic considering men sometimes have the exact disposition towards women about vaginas. Not saying I do, but I’ve never heard “oh theyre attached to dicks, their only good part” considering dicks are nasty. Meanwhile I have heard “if it weren’t for vaginas, what would be the point of women?” Kind of a vengeful message especially if you watch porn and other misogynistic stuff.

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Thank you.

I thought it was funny too.

5-10 years younger is good for me. Any more than that and a generational difference becomes apparent.